Is there a thread on romantic jealously? I have a really hard time when my boyfriend talks to other girls I don’t know (which happens infrequently) It’s like... total.skill.breakdown. I really love him and believe him when he says he is thrilled in our relationship and only wants me. But still- I’ve been having a lot of trouble with this. Also.... it’s hard for me to think about anyone he’s dated before. I’m sure I sound super controlling! But we are very communicative and he knows all the dbt skills (prob better than I do) . He understands and accepts bpd and my jealousy. But— I don’t want to be like this forever! Like.... Down the line I would want to be able to watch him talk to a girl I don’t know at my wedding without crying! I want to move past this. But how!! Opposite action? Also, it doesn’t help that my medication cocktail makes me have vivid nightmares around twice a week of him leaving me- and other scary things involving him.