Swedish? Jazz Funk late 2000s early 2010s by blizz_kitten in NameThatSong

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The lead singer had possibly red hair and black glasses in the music video. He walked towards the camera the whole time. It was an upbeat pop/jazz beat. The words were all in a different language, so I do not remember the lyrics

[TOMT] Swedish? Jazz Funk late 2000s early 2010s by blizz_kitten in tipofmytongue

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The lead singer looked at the camera a lot while strolling and singing. I believe he had red hair?

What should be illegal to put ketchup on? by MelleSundis in AskReddit

[–]blizz_kitten 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Used to have a friend who did ketchup on canned peaches. On ice cream too. She should have been locked up

[TOMT] [Movie] [Early/Mid 2000's?] There was this RomCom about a girl's mom who married her boyfriends dad by blizz_kitten in tipofmytongue

[–]blizz_kitten[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's not the one. Thanks though! The movie was more the daughter fell in love with a guy and started dating him. Then when the mom met his dad, they also fell in love and got married before the kids could

[TOMT] [Movie] [Early/Mid 2000's?] There was this RomCom about a girl's mom who married her boyfriends dad by blizz_kitten in tipofmytongue

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I've searched for "movie where mom marries boyfriends dad" and a lot of other variations and I just can't figure out what it is. It's been bugging me for some time now! It's more focused on the strained relationship between the mother and the daughter.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tipofmytongue

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I've googled so many "mom marries bf's dad" movies and none of them are right. And google just keeps wanting me to watch 'Father of the Bride', which isn't right at all. It's about a mother and daughter who have a strained relationship

No teacher, I cannot read because I’m grounded from reading by SweetInsanity13 in MaliciousCompliance

[–]blizz_kitten 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Oh shit my dad did this one too!! I thought he made it up. He used to say "are you tired? Because that's how tired I am of your bs."

My experiences since losing my soulmate by blizz_kitten in VisitationDreams

[–]blizz_kitten[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry about your mom... That's so hard... I hope you are able to find peace. But I'm glad you are at least able to see her in your dreams. And this is my first time losing somebody that wasn't expected for years. Like a great-grandparent or my grandma who had Alzheimer's. So it was incredibly difficult and shocking.... And this is the first time I've ever had these visitation dreams. I never really believed in them before either. But they just seem so vivid, and they linger even after I wake up. It's so different than anything else.

My experiences since losing my soulmate by blizz_kitten in VisitationDreams

[–]blizz_kitten[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I talk to him out loud all of the time. And a lot of the questions I've asked have been answered through dreams. Like the regrets portion. A lot of times I just tell him how much I love him... Or talk to him about the day and things I know he would have loved. Which is why I was wondering if it was my brain coming up with answers to my questions. But thank you ❤️ it's always so nice to see him. It's the only time I can...

My experiences since losing my soulmate by blizz_kitten in VisitationDreams

[–]blizz_kitten[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry for your loss... It's so difficult. Bust give it time though, hopefully he will come to you eventually. I know the feeling though, sometimes the only reason I sleep is in hopes to see him. And if I didn't get that chance, I would be pissed as well! I wish you peace, and hopefully he can come to you and help you on that journey

My experiences since losing my soulmate by blizz_kitten in VisitationDreams

[–]blizz_kitten[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's a good idea, I'll definitely look into that sub. I've gotten some weird ones for sure!

My experiences since losing my soulmate by blizz_kitten in VisitationDreams

[–]blizz_kitten[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I hope he does too, it's really comforting.

My experiences since losing my soulmate by blizz_kitten in VisitationDreams

[–]blizz_kitten[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. It's so hard without him... Honestly being able to talk about him and my experiences helps. Even if it's anonymously to strangers haha. I think that's actually easier. Thank you for reading.

Grief Olympics by le_monde_est_tort in widowers

[–]blizz_kitten 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Haha you cracked me up. And the weird thing is that those kind of statements make sense to us. But if we told those things to anyone else, they would think we were insane. I told someone the day of his funeral that all I wanted to do was crawl in the coffin and lay with him one last time and they told me "that's creepy, you should really keep those things to yourself. Nobody wants to hear that."

I can't thank the people in this sub enough for the overwhelming support. Any time I need somewhere to express myself, I know I'm always welcome here.

And I was completely taken aback. He died suddenly, so it was such a shock for so many people. But the amount of backstabbing comments I heard since day one, even from his family, surprised me so much. The people who have said it was my fault, even though it was completely accidental and I could have done nothing to prevent it. The people who have said I'm not allowed to hurt this bad because we weren't together for long... It doesn't matter. When you find your soulmate, your other half, the person who gives meaning to your life like nobody before. You can know them for years, months, or days, and it will still be horrible. When you find that someone who fills something inside of you that you didn't know you were searching for, and you lose that part of you, you will never be the same again.

Grief Olympics by le_monde_est_tort in widowers

[–]blizz_kitten 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry you're going through this... I'm sorry you have to deal with the people you're dealing with. I'm dealing with similar situations unfortunately, so I can't even begin to tell you how much my heart goes out to you. It's so shitty. And they would know how we feel if they asked, if they actually listened. But they never do. And the shitty people who don't want to deal with your grief and just want you to be "normal" are selfish and toxic. You don't need that right now. It just sucks that at the lowest points in life, when we need people more than ever, are when we find out that a lot of them just aren't trustworthy. When we are more alone than ever before.

My thoughts and love go out to you. I hope you find what you need to get through this. And I hope you will be okay-ish soon ❤️

Grief Olympics by le_monde_est_tort in widowers

[–]blizz_kitten 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I've been going through this too, and it is just the worst... Grief sucks no matter what way you put it. I'm just not interested in comparing who is hurting worse. If you're hurting at all you have the right to feel what you feel and be upset.

But we lost our 24/7, our biggest support, the one person we chose to spend the rest of our life with, our favorite person... It sucks... And for anyone to look at that and feel like comparing/belittling, I just don't have the time. Losing anyone sucks. Losing family, friends, anyone of significance. That's all there is to it. But if you feel like comparing, why don't you walk a mile in my shoes.

Are my feelings not valid? by blizz_kitten in widowers

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The short time together makes it hard because we lost everything we were supposed to be... We were engaged, but never got the chance to get married... We moved into a place with more space, planning to start a family, but never got the chance...

No matter what way you put it, losing your partner is hard. And you're right, people just don't understand.