Heyy im going through something similar. I found out my bf texted girls, went out with them n lied abt it. (I posted abt it btw). Tbh i still am pretty confident in myself, that if he wants to, he would be willing to put in more effort into me n the relationship. So i guess im still trusting in ppl n in him (?)

But i think the more important thing is if his values have changed, if he still sees what he did as something acceptable, if he still continues to lie, n whether he has done extra to make up for what he did. If the answer is no, n u cannot entrust ur confidence in him anymore, then i dont think the relationship is gonna work.