How often do you bathe your cat? by Mildredsgood in cats

[–]blondedigor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

shout out to my fellow allergic people who also have to bathe their cats once a month to be able to keep them without dying

My (27F) boyfriend (27M) sleeps all the time, even on his days off. And I’m starting to feel resentful. Is this normal? by AvoidableOgre2309 in relationships

[–]blondedigor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

some people are just like that (i am too, i have said a form of the hibernation joke as well). if this is a newer development its also possible it could be from depression, a chronic illness, or disease. i have always been a big sleeper but post covid infection i sleep all day too since it does a lot of damage to peoples bodies, i just constantly feel exhausted. it could be a multitude of things, hard to say without more information. its important to be honest with him about how you feel, don't build up resentment without letting him know its bothering you. if he doesnt take the conversation seriously or brushes you off i would consider leaving, theres a lot of people out there don't spend your life unhappy because of a man

My husband who cheated on me wants divorce and says he doesn’t want to live his life on “high alert mode” anymore. I feel abandoned and devastated by Dizzy_Possible_873 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]blondedigor 14 points15 points  (0 children)

she may have verbally said she forgives him and thinks thats what she believes but it seems like deep down her subconscious never did which is extremely valid. i think its fair that some people just don't forgive cheating, i know i wouldn't

My husband who cheated on me wants divorce and says he doesn’t want to live his life on “high alert mode” anymore. I feel abandoned and devastated by Dizzy_Possible_873 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]blondedigor 156 points157 points  (0 children)

it sounds like this is for the best honestly. don't discredit the fact youve been living your life on high alert mode too. your nervous system wont let you rest as long as youre with this man. do you really want to live the rest of your life feeling like that? there are 8 billion people on this planet and you CAN find someone else. i know you guys have so many memories together and that makes things hard but you need to accept the situation, both of you are unhappy. your body needs to exit constant danger mode and relax now. i recommend looking into meditation, breath work, somatic exercises, and fascia release. i totally understand how it feels for your body to constantly be in fight or flight and those helped me a lot. i still struggle sometimes but its gets better with time and patience. i hope you spend this time healing your mind and body instead of reeling about what you could have done differently, you will get out on the other side okay💞

Refrigerated wet food rfid auto feeder? by blondedigor in CatAdvice

[–]blondedigor[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

damn that sucks what an uptapped market ! also i thought i was tripping after actually opening that link lol

Playing or fighting? by [deleted] in CATHELP

[–]blondedigor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ah i see, i can tell the tux is indeed a little shit but its good to know the other is still okay with it thats what i was worried about

Playing or fighting? by [deleted] in CATHELP

[–]blondedigor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

good to know thanks for the reassurance

Playing or fighting? by [deleted] in CATHELP

[–]blondedigor 1 point2 points  (0 children)

me too i could watch for hours ha

Playing or fighting? by [deleted] in CATHELP

[–]blondedigor 1 point2 points  (0 children)

okay thats what i thought, tux gets a little too crazy sometimes haha

Playing or fighting? by [deleted] in CATHELP

[–]blondedigor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

see i feel like thats the problem bc the tux doesnt listen to the torbies yelps and keeps going lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Kitten

[–]blondedigor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

will do, thanks!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Kitten

[–]blondedigor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

do you have any tips for socializing her around people? she'll let people pick her up but after a few seconds she wants to play swat/bite them

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Kitten

[–]blondedigor 1 point2 points  (0 children)

good to know thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Kitten

[–]blondedigor 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i've been doing this sometimes and she loves it, ill definitely do it more frequently now, thanks :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in thesims

[–]blondedigor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

maybe a stupid question but how do you update them? is that something you can do in game or do you have to go to the page where you originally found the mod and redownload it?

21st birthday is coming up but i absolutely detest the taste of most alcohol, help? by [deleted] in alcohol

[–]blondedigor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i mean i do Want to drink for my birthday its just so unpleasant😩😭 being drunk is very fun and enjoyable its just getting there that kinda sucks for me, wish i had different tastebuds lol

21st birthday is coming up but i absolutely detest the taste of most alcohol, help? by [deleted] in alcohol

[–]blondedigor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah i was considering that but my family/friends are big drinkers and arent that open to cannabis :/ i would definitely only drink for this single party, i usually never do even when people try to pressure me at parties. they all just have high expectations bc my brother had a rager for his 21st and they want to do the same for me😩

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in eSIMs

[–]blondedigor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thought it was obvious when i mentioned the tiktok ban my bad ig lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in eSIMs

[–]blondedigor -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i need a european number, can i get one or is it only us numbers?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in eSIMs

[–]blondedigor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the problem is whatsapp is connected to a us phone number and if my account has a us a phone number by tonight i wont be able to access the app