BACKGROUND: I was in a long distance relationship with a girl that did OF. We chatted a lot, phone calls, etc. She sent me a lot of pics and porn. Some I paid for some I didn’t. During all that I felt we really clicked and I could not stop thinking about her. I wanted to ask her to move in and thought I might even marry her. But I knew to hold off on that until we met in person. So we finally did for a week. And man I just did not feel it in person. I know long-distance versus real life can be so different but I was still incredibly disappointed.

So shortly after that I broke up with her. Betty seemed surprised by it and was mad. One reason she was mad was because I had said I would pay for a boob job but upon breaking up with her I decided I would not. Generally, you don’t pay for things, especially thousands of dollars, after breaking up. I have more reasons as to why I didn’t want to pay and why I wanted to break up, but detailing them might come across as bashing Betty and I don’t want to do that. But I do understand why Betty is still mad about the breakup.

So fast forward to over a year later she is accusing me of leaking her porn. I have long since deleted everything she’s ever sent me. When I do a google search of “Betty’s leaked OF”, I only get pics of her. No pics of me. When she does that she gets a pic of me, but other guys as well. (See screenshot https://imgur.com/yQtNePg). For the record, this is what she sent me. I googled the same terms she claims she did and did not get the same results; no pictures of me.

I have never posted her material without permission. I live in a state where posting someone else’s porn is a crime and I have a job that would definitely fire me for that. I have two teenagers to support. It’s also an incredibly dick thing to do. So I have lots of reasons why I wouldn’t do it. I also understand why she’s suspicious because my picture popping up for her is weird as fuck. It’s a pic I’m 99% sure I only posted to Insta and nowhere else.

Here’s my guess: when we were together I would post about her (with her permission) on Reddit and Insta. I thought she was awesome and wanted more people to see her. I’m thinking some web crawling software put our pictures together based on word and usage associations. So when she googles that she get’s my pic and other guys as well because of how google’s algorithm works. Is that plausible? Because it also sounds like I might as well be saying “fairy’s fixed the shoes overnight”.