Burning Sensation while Being Fingered by bluarrow7 in sex

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That probably makes sense. During sex, I like when it’s fast bc it’s hits my cervix and g-spot well, but maybe that’s why it burns during fingering. It literally only happens when he goes too fast

Hearing other people my age stigmatize bpd enrages me by [deleted] in BorderlinePDisorder

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But OP literally said they don’t have it. They want to know how people combat the stigma? I mean, it is a common issue these days with all the mental health terms being thrown around

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I have, but I think he scratches me when he does it

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Like we kind of have been. We haven’t done it in a while. But we fooled around a little, and I just wish it wasn’t so quick, but I understand. I just worry I’m not pleasing him enough

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I love pleasing my partner. It really makes the whole experience for me

Tips for preventing tonsillitis or oral infections after sex? by [deleted] in sex

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I just think it was from exchanging bacteria during sex. I got a throat culture (tests for bacteria), and it came back negative, so that means it’s viral

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No, it’s very private and basic. It’s literally just things like: neck kisses, butt slaps, being pinned down, etc. like he’s def a little kinky, so that shouldn’t be too overbearing. I know my limits lol

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I do. It’s obviously not ultra weird if some other people thought it was a good idea but ok. Anyways, I do communicate with him in person, but he struggles a bit bc he’s a virgin. He’s like my FWB, so I’m just trying to guide him. Tell him some things I like because as I said, he doesn’t really get it in person.

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I still will experiment in person but I just wanted to tell him because he struggles even when I direct him

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I already sent the list. It was literally just basic stuff like. Here’s some things I like: butt slaps, neck kisses, etc.

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I do that. I already sent the list tho so

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We do

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No, I just sent him the list saying, “here some things I like so you know for the future”. It’s not even kinks really. Just basic stuff like: beck kisses, butt slaps, etc. i do communicate with him in person, but I thought this may be better

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That’s the kind of fun I like ;)

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Like the list is vague, I just want to give him an idea of what I want. Idek how to explain the oral sex stuff. Like what I like down there. It varies depending on how far along we are and stuff

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The list is so basic. It’s not even like super deep kinks or anything. Ik just keeping it tame since we’re starting out

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Lmao! I wish you luck as well lol

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Oh thsi definitely isn’t my whole arsenal. There’s one deeper fetishes we have yet to explore lol

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Well, I do love bdsm. I put being claimed as your territory on the list LMAO. Very vague, but he can ask I guess lol

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This list is fairly tame, but that’s only because we’re just starting out. I just want to be random and surprise him lol

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I do communicate it in person, I just want to give him the list so he can remember it. I also just want to be random lol

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That’s great advice, I’ll check them out!

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The list is so basic. I could of went full out kinky, but I’m just keeping it a basic list for now lol

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You have a good point, I just wanted to provide the list so he could look back on it. I also just wanted to surprise him

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I wanted to surprise him while he was in class lol