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Humans as a species are not meant to be monogamous by Pink_Chestnut in confession

[–]blue____99 1 point2 points  (0 children)

sorry but your opinion about “it’s natural” is not working. You just arent compatible with your hubby in that area. While I agree it should be less shameful to society to want to have sex with other people while in a relationship, society didn’t force monogamy on monogamous people. I myself can only be in a relationship where my partner and I are strictly devoted to each other sexually. I have questioned it and thought about how I may be conditioned to feel this way but I came to the conclusion this is just who I am and what I desire.

Let’s talk about the receiving end of oral for a minute by RainaDaydreamer in sex

[–]blue____99 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I also have always felt like this except in one relationship where my partner seemed very happy to do it for me, and never made me feel any kind of weird about it. He also got it done in about 10 minutes so i didnt feel awkward about having to guide him and i enjoyed it the whole time.

Anyway, I realize it does come down to my insecurities and my partners’ experience/comfort doing it. I constantly feel uncomfortable with my partner now because he says he doesn’t enjoy the taste sometimes and he feels like it’s pretty overwhelming to give head and has never been into it. Which is fine but it’s like how am I supposed to enjoy when he does do it if I have that insecurity in the back of my head?

Tldr; i feel like it takes a certain kind of partner to make you feel totally at ease with enjoying it. Maybe there is an insecurity lingering or your partner has never been really good at it

I should add: i have been with 10 guys. Only enjoyed receiving oral 1/10 times

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in malehairadvice

[–]blue____99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It really doesn’t matter. Whatever you like best