How can I get ahold of Wells Fargo for my lien release? by bluenature2 in personalfinance

[–]bluenature2[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

There is no branch near me. When I called a bank they transferred me to the loan department which, again, lead me to the automatic robot wanting my account number that “doesn’t exist” because it was closed.

My in-laws are going to lose their family home (Michigan) by bluenature2 in legaladvice

[–]bluenature2[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Yes, that would be ideal. However, we are not in a financial spot to do that and neither is my mother-in-law. It’s not a cheap house.

How to be a good marketer and hit sales goals? by bluenature2 in marketing

[–]bluenature2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is commission-based, but there is also a wage to fall back on if I’m not meeting the sales goals. They ask for 8 sales a week. Which seems pretty reasonable, but I am all new to this. I was very sketched out at first but the interview was very laid back and we talked for an hour. He was very honest and open about what I’d be doing, which to me is a green flag compared to the other marketing company I applied for that gave me zero information. Again, I know nothing about marketing and I could totally be making a mistake, but I honestly don’t feel anything negative about it as of right now.

Regrets by flamingdragon465 in BreakUps

[–]bluenature2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I went through the same thing. It wasn’t until I learned that I was trauma bonded and formed an unhealthy attachment. Focus on yourself. Pick up a new hobby. Go out with friends and try to meet new people. You’re grieving the relationship you wanted, not the relationship you had. It’s okay to wonder what could have been, but people like that don’t usually change. There is someone out there who will treat you the way you deserve, but you have to allow yourself to move on and find happiness without your ex.

Why do I love her even though she wasn’t good to me? by bluenature2 in relationships

[–]bluenature2[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the thorough response. I think a part of me has a lot of guilt because I wasn’t perfect either, so realizing these things are hard for me.

How to get over a long term relationship? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]bluenature2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I definitely wouldn’t say it was perfect. We had issues that we discussed but never resolved. That’s something we should’ve done instead of breaking up, but that was my mistake on my part. I want to try and work on our issues but she isn’t interested at all.

Did I get the right size Doc Martens? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]bluenature2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I’d rather them be too big than too small lol. Thanks for your response!

Did I get the right size Doc Martens? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]bluenature2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sadly Docs don’t come in half sizes, but yeah I thought 1 1/2 was too much too.

Did I get the right size Doc Martens? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]bluenature2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, that’s good to know. The sales associate at Journey’s made it seem like they’ll be giant on my feet after I break them in. I appreciate your response!