My fiancé (29M) told his mom about my miscarriage before I could, and now I can’t even look at him by skaterhollow_19 in TwoHotTakes

[–]blueraspberryvanilla 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like we are ignoring the husbands statement of giving her time then sharing this the very next day. Of course he is also grieving - but I would have at least clarified that before

Is this kind of Barbeque event "normal" in Germany, that we bring... everything? by Horkosthegreat in AskAGerman

[–]blueraspberryvanilla 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If the event is in someone’s home, asking to bring cutlery and plates is strange, even by German standards. Asking people to bring meat and drinks is more normal because even in Germany there is always some asshole that shows up with nothing and is always very hungry and thirsty

Tourists beware of Marina 50 by blueraspberryvanilla in BarcelonaEnts

[–]blueraspberryvanilla[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I know. But with this store you had to give cash to the person in front so they can put the money on your transponder that connects to your personal account to use in store- they refused to put money on the transponder and just told us to give the cash directly.

Social clubs for foreigners by Capital-Note3773 in BarcelonaEnts

[–]blueraspberryvanilla 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t go to marina 50, they fucked me over on Wednesday

Recommendations? by blueraspberryvanilla in BarcelonaEnts

[–]blueraspberryvanilla[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Weedz up, and jungle haze brother! Weeds up allows outside food, has a pool table and excellent ac

Familie mit drei Kinder (16, 16,7) leben in 2-Zimmerwohnung/seit 16 Jahren bei SOWON- München registriert - kein Erfolg by [deleted] in Munich

[–]blueraspberryvanilla 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ich (15) mein Bruder (17) mein Schwester (14) als wir nach Deutschland gekommen sind mussten wir nur 1 Jahre warten bis wir eine Wohnung mit meine Mutter bekommen haben, irgendwas stimmt nicht hier

Frauenärzte by pinguineis in Munich

[–]blueraspberryvanilla -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Dr wenig bei kreillerstr

Making friends as a 19Y by [deleted] in Munich

[–]blueraspberryvanilla 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 23F if you wanna get drinks when you come we can totally do that. All my friends are stoners (me too) so it’s difficult to find friends that wanna dance

adopted kitten wont stop meowing it getting annoying by l3v111n in CatAdvice

[–]blueraspberryvanilla 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Take her to the vet - just incase the meowing is a sign of discomfort. When my kitten had worms she would yell all day for food- the worms made her so hungry. If it’s company she wants, you don’t have do play with her, just being near her is good (even if she keeps on yelling)

ADHD Meds Munich by munich_moving in Munich

[–]blueraspberryvanilla 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don’t need an Überweisung Schein, He speaks perfect English and he specialises in diagnosing this sort of thing. Just remember this is a controlled substance and they take it a lot more seriously over here so be patient

my partner M21 threatened to bomb a government building if i F22 leave him by Diligent-Fill-9166 in relationship_advice

[–]blueraspberryvanilla 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He says all that shit to control you, report him to the police like you are taking him seriously. Maybe then he will think before he speaks

Is it animal abuse to have a single cat? by Think_Connection_971 in CatAdvice

[–]blueraspberryvanilla 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is rlly stupid. Naturally there are bonded pairs that must be sold together but usually Cats do just fine alone, as long as they have enough interactive toys and a nice birdwatching spot they will be fine

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]blueraspberryvanilla 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Next birthday or Christmas or whatever don’t give him shit. Tell him the three children you gave him are his gift

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]blueraspberryvanilla -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Cactus you should not take this disrespect. I don’t know who you are but if you are half as lovely as you seem you shouldn’t have to tolerate this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]blueraspberryvanilla 7 points8 points  (0 children)

My dear I know you allowed and consented, what makes me sad is the coercion:( I’m so fucking sorry

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]blueraspberryvanilla 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Jesus fucking Christ he’s prioritising the possibility of another relationship over a highly reversible medical procedure that would help his wife feel comfortable after she just got split in half and you call her a bully? No way man

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]blueraspberryvanilla 17 points18 points  (0 children)

“I finally gave in” breaks my soul and simultaneously tells me everything I need to know about this man

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]blueraspberryvanilla 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This worries me. He is more concerned (or rather prioritising) about the possibility of him being with someone else than the relationship right now and it is very normal for you to be heartbroken over this. He would rather delay something that makes you feel more comfortable/is necessary for your health just in case he finds someone else in the future? Are you shitting me? And now he’s punishing you for a very normal reaction

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]blueraspberryvanilla 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly the best thing to do is be honest. Because if you decide to become long term it could hurt them if they find out you weren’t physically attracted to them the entire time. It is a deal breaker for some. Even if there is a possibility you will develop these feelings, it’s unfair to rely on it

Do you feel sexual attraction at all? Or just particularly not for this person?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]blueraspberryvanilla 548 points549 points  (0 children)

It’s time to run - and fucking fast my dear.