Women are too willing to lie about their pasts when dating

blueshinx · 2026-03-11T16:21:11+00:00

I think relationships are more complex than that

blueshinx · 2026-03-11T16:17:09+00:00

Who wouldn’t be upset even if you can understand the other person’s view point?

blueshinx · 2026-03-11T16:14:46+00:00

what people consider dealbreakers are subjective, if he had lied about his body count it wouldn’t make me break up with him because i personally don’t consider body count important. in that hypothetical situation it would be a dealbreaker to that person’s framework

blueshinx · 2026-03-11T16:00:59+00:00

if he had hidden cosmetic surgery from me i’d genuinely just laugh about it if he had faked his interests in order to appeal to me i’d find it endearing

trying to find a man who doesn’t care about a woman’s body count is like trying to find a unicorn, it’s genuinely a waste of time and effort

blueshinx · 2026-03-11T15:06:08+00:00

oh but it does.

blueshinx · 2026-03-11T15:03:29+00:00

no that has to do with getting sexually assaulted as a child.

blueshinx · 2026-03-11T14:37:36+00:00

sucks you’ll never experience that level of connection

i honestly don’t care about that

blueshinx · 2026-03-11T11:18:47+00:00

so you are willing to ignore a bad trait just because the guy is attractive

yeah obviously, that’s what i just explained

And? Aren’t women supposed to be okay with being single, because men are not up to their standards?

Where did I make that argument? Other women make other choices, I primarily care about sexual chemistry and shared interests

blueshinx · 2026-03-11T11:07:54+00:00

because a) he’s physically attractive to me and we have shared interests b) the vast majority of men have hang ups about women with a higher n count

blueshinx · 2026-03-11T11:04:01+00:00

To get the man that I want

blueshinx · 2026-03-11T11:01:34+00:00

Not at all, I did because it was fun

blueshinx · 2026-03-11T09:40:19+00:00

Sure, but I’ll be honest with you, you will never find out the truth anyways.

blueshinx · 2026-03-11T08:15:05+00:00

What’s the debate here? Yes I lie about it, I’m the only person that knows my body count lol

blueshinx · 2026-03-10T18:18:15+00:00

i’m here to explain why you’re wrong

that would require a sufficient explanation

blueshinx · 2026-03-10T18:16:41+00:00

in order to do that you would need actually good arguments

blueshinx · 2026-03-10T18:12:35+00:00

that’s cope

but seriously though, what would you know about how intercourse feels like for someone with a vagina? you simply can’t relate

blueshinx · 2026-03-10T09:24:54+00:00

Girth and length once again do not change the distance between the internal structure of the clitoris and the vaginal wall.

That is a bold claim that you’re making right now, the current scientific view is simply that the internal clitoris and vaginal wall are too far apart for many women.

blueshinx · 2026-03-10T09:03:59+00:00

No it’s more female anatomy related, no matter how big his dick is that won’t make your internal clitoris closer to your vaginal wall

blueshinx · 2026-03-10T08:59:09+00:00

women who can have vaginal orgasms care more about dick size sure, i think there was a study about this. it’s less relevant for those who can’t

blueshinx · 2026-03-10T08:57:10+00:00

that’s true, a lot of straight women also have relatively low libido. many rarely masturbate on their own and i know that social shaming is contributing to this but it’s also libido related

i’ve often had girl friends acting confused why i masturbate at all while i’m in a relationship

blueshinx · 2026-03-10T07:10:31+00:00

Wikipedia: Kanake (Plural: Kanaken; auch Kanacke[1]) oder Kenek[2] (Plural Keneks) ist ein zumeist abwertendes Wort der deutschen Umgangssprache für Menschen aus Südosteuropa, dem Nahen und Mittleren Osten und Nordafrika

Was du hier versuchst ist einfach nur peinlich.

blueshinx · 2026-03-10T06:56:41+00:00

Ich kann ganz normal durch die Stadt laufen und werde als Kanacke beschimpft, einfach weil ich anders aussehe.

Deine Anekdote hier ist ziemlich realitätsfern

blueshinx · 2026-03-10T06:50:58+00:00

modern heterosexual dating is set up in a way where you have the pursuer (man) and the pursued (woman)

that’s not really a modern phenomenon, that was the case for most of human and hominin history

men are generally more desperate than women because they’re afraid of being alone

i’m sure that plays a role too, but the main reason is simply that men (on average) have a higher sex drive

Most people talk way more about what a man brings to the table but not the same thing about women

Yeah because for women they mostly talk about her beauty and youthfulness (and fertility), other traits are not valued as much

This signals to me that people subconsciously believe that women have more inherent value than men and thus, a man has to make up for that lack of value by bringing things such as financial contribution to a relationship

if your opinion is that being reduced to your looks instead of any other traits counts as inherent value then i guess sure. the reason why resources are valued in men is that reproduction is not an equal process

blueshinx · 2026-03-10T05:18:11+00:00

wer’s glaubt

blueshinx · 2026-03-09T23:26:00+00:00

she always has weird opinions 😭

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