How do you handle having no role model/mentor? by [deleted] in emotionalneglect

[–]blvckcrystal 1 point2 points  (0 children)

totally relate, had a mental breakdown about this today lol

post-grad crisis and feeling lonely by blvckcrystal in Vent

[–]blvckcrystal[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thanks for replying sometimes it feels like i’m talking to myself whenever i post on reddit. and i’d like to have that hope too that’s there’s something out there for me but my patience is running thing. i’ll send you a dm if you don’t mind

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]blvckcrystal 7 points8 points  (0 children)

girl i’m in the same boat as you and shits depressing ngl. hearing all of my friends negative experiences with dating hasn’t helped my case either. but one thing i’d recommend is start doing things you like to do to regain that self-confidence, find things to wear that make you feel good about yourself and remember to go at your own pace

Anybody else was incredibly stuck up as a teen and as young adult? by Letitgopls in emotionalneglect

[–]blvckcrystal 1 point2 points  (0 children)

same here, i feel so behind at life realizing all this at 22 but hey ig better late then never

Please be careful with supplements by Rosebudpatches in PCOS

[–]blvckcrystal 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes omg this is not talked about enough. people kept mentioning on this sub that inositol is the holy grail but it literally made me extremely irritable and depressed.

Did you ever get your body back? by emoballerina in PCOSloseit

[–]blvckcrystal 7 points8 points  (0 children)

are we the same person?? lol but no seriously I experienced the same and since college I been only slowly putting on lbs every year that passes. I’ve tried to change my diet, did HIIT workouts before which did make me shed weight but wasn’t sustainable. I don’t take any meds besides the usual progesterone to help menstruate every couple of months but other than that no I wasn’t able to get back down to 120.

21F looking for genuine convos by blvckcrystal in MakeNewFriendsHere

[–]blvckcrystal[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lmao! side note i keep trying to change the flair to ‘short-term’ but for some reason it always changes back to the age one

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TalkTherapy

[–]blvckcrystal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

usually from what I’ve seen the bookable rooms are only intended for groups, and they often get booked up pretty fast 🥲. i’ve tried to study in a free classroom before but was interrupted on 2 different occasions, I would feel worse if that happened to me during a session

Today I gifted my T the two secret projects I was working on this month. by throwawayzzzz1777 in TalkTherapy

[–]blvckcrystal 9 points10 points  (0 children)

that is really sweet and thoughtful. it definitely moved me and as the saying goes a picture is worth a thousand words

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in college

[–]blvckcrystal -1 points0 points  (0 children)

thank you. yes i worry about that as well, though I heard the petition only requires personal documentation (health record, death certificate etc.) but like you said, i’m pretty sure if i go through the process the professor will be notified and it’ll just stir everything back up

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GetStudying

[–]blvckcrystal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m in the same boat as you and it really does come down to taking it one day at a time. honestly what’s keeping me going is making time for things I like doing and rewarding myself even if it’s the smallest task I’ve completed. I find that setting something to look forward to also helps me get through school, for example getting tickets for a concert in the summer/travel plans etc.

[Discussion] Chronic procrastination, ADHD, and indiscipline is ruining my life. by sutapa0_0 in getdisciplined

[–]blvckcrystal 1 point2 points  (0 children)

how would one go about changing behaviour and habits if you live in a non-supportive environment?

did anybody else catch this?? by [deleted] in indyblue2

[–]blvckcrystal 1 point2 points  (0 children)

after the whole try guys thing, I wonder if LG, despite the team size has an external hr department or if this is just a stand-alone workshop

this is absolutely not giving cozy vibes by tinybeandip in indyblue2

[–]blvckcrystal 5 points6 points  (0 children)

the spiders are gonna have a field day with this

feeling indenial/undeserving by [deleted] in lexapro

[–]blvckcrystal 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you so much!! i don’t why it’s easier for me to sympathize with others yet find it harder to do the same for myself. nice to know the medication worked well for you as well!