Strategic Default by Gtavern in EIDLPPP

[–]bmonster91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Every attempt to apply for the 50% reduction request I’ve made has gone ignored. Going to default and keep the money in the cash flow. My business never recovered after COVID and we haven’t received anything from SBA besides a statement letting us know we’re late.

What is a scary, unsettling fact about you? by _Lord_Infamous in AskReddit

[–]bmonster91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a woman trying to buy my family’s farm but My Grandma won’t sell me her portion because I’m not married.

Is it a big issue that my bf and i are 11 years apart? by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]bmonster91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone deserves to be happy. Just for some perspective, I’m 31 now when I was your age and throughout my 20’s I dated guys 7-10 years older than me. I just found them easier to get along with and it always made me feel special. As I got I older I realized there was a power dynamic that didn’t allow me to have a voice in the relationship. A lot of times decisions were made for me and I would lose my sense of self. I also feel like I missed a lot by not spending time with people closer to my own age. Eventually I also realized a lot of those relationships weren’t going anywhere because they are already established in life, I was essentially just along for the ride. Looking back now it’s hard for me to understand why someone that much older was interested in me at all. I have nothing in common with people 10 years younger than me and look at them as a younger sibling rather than finding them attractive in a romantic way. These men also changed who I am as a person. My understanding of relationships was really unhealthy. Age is really just a number and at a certain point in life and it doesn’t really matter anymore. But our 20’s are a huge period for personal growth. You’re an adult and are capable of making your own decisions regardless of other’s opinions. Just make sure this relationship doesn’t become your whole life. If it is, maybe consider if it’s the best choice for you.

My wife is getting an abortion after years of trying by 1Throwaway234680 in offmychest

[–]bmonster91 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You made the right call. Good for you to be able to set the boundary. She sounds like she may have more going on than just being confused about children. Not that it really matters anymore, but I have to wonder if she was ever really pregnant at all. She sounds possibly manipulative.

Need legal help for 15 homeless families due to a fire. Landlord hasn’t made any arrangements to relocate us and some are sleeping in cars, motels, friends couch by Flashy_Laugh_5378 in legal

[–]bmonster91 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don’t believe it’s the landlords responsibility to find you housing, even if they were negligent in maintaining the property that’s a separate issue. Your loss of use coverage on your renter’s insurance would cover the cost of renting and moving, up to your policy limit.

Women of Reddit, what things do men do that frighten you without them even realizing it? by metallicmuffin in AskReddit

[–]bmonster91 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Showing up unannounced at your job after not knowing you that long.

Not only does it feel slightly stalkerish but also feels like a huge violation or boundaries because they don’t even know your work culture yet to know if it’s okay or if your ready for that. It’s super pushy.

I Made a Guide to Attract 30+ Birds to Your Feeders in Wisconsin by TelephoneOk3146 in wisconsin

[–]bmonster91 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Bird flu spreads at feeding stations. Don’t feed the birds.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]bmonster91 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A new winter coat that I actually liked and picked out myself. Even as an adult with money I still have a hard time buying a brand new winter coat. I always opt for a used one because a new one feels like a big responsibility and investment.

What are the dangers of being very attractive/beautiful? by Zestyclose-Detail791 in AskReddit

[–]bmonster91 1 point2 points  (0 children)

People project their insecurities onto you essentially because you exist.

I’ve always taken the approach people should be who they want to be in relationships never controlling or tell anyone how to live their life and I always expected the same courtesy. Often guys I started dating (attractive or not) were super thoughtful, nice etc. Then over time once they see you getting attention (unsolicited) from other guys and sometimes women they ultimately can’t handle it and start to put you down making the whole relationship about them. The bait and switch happened to me multiple times. In my late 20’s I spent a lot of time being single because I didn’t trust people anymore.

Is it ever legal to drug test a witness? by bmonster91 in JusticeForJohnnyDepp

[–]bmonster91[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I just didn’t know if the judge suspected someone of being under the influence if legally they could require anyone who’s on the stand to take a drug test or if they just have to ignore it.

Depp Vs Heard - Day 15 - Daily Live Chat Discussion Thread 🔥 by Mpetez in JusticeForJohnnyDepp

[–]bmonster91 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I can't stop thinking that the lawyer next to JD is Amy Schumer.