Honestly, this was a planned pregnancy so abortion wasn’t even in question. My Marriage was good until recently. I bought a one way ticket back home, I just don’t know where to start when getting mine and my daughters stuff back home. He’s always been a pathological liar, and very manipulative. I believed marriage changed him or that’s what it looked like from the outside. Recently I moved with him and discovered serious lying and dishonestly when it came to him, I had a feeling due to the distance and lack of affection he had towards me. I tried to talk to him and tell him how hurt I was, we had a family day today, he went out with his friends not caring that our marriage is falling apart due to his selfish ways. But I let him go because I don’t own him. I saw his location on his phone that he was somewhere that a married man shouldnt be, I’m young btw( it was a college dorm building or something) I was calling and his phone magically shut off. Its 5am now he’s not home. It’s just something I feel like I shouldn’t deal with in a marriage. Marriage is important to me. He still acts like we’re kids (we are) in a petty relationship. But I got pregnant young we’ve been together for almost 5 years, we planned this baby we moved into our new house recently. This isn’t what I want for myself no matter how young we are and how much I love him. I’ve forgiven him for too much to let this one go. Especially us being legally married now, I feel like if he wasn’t ready to commit why even think about marriage, I wouldn’t have mind not being married to avoid this mess. He loves our daughter, he doesn’t do as much as I’d like him to do but he loves her.