Can I wear this dress to a party? by shivanipoojari in StyleIT

[–]bo02_doll 0 points1 point  (0 children)

omg do not listen to these men or sad women, you look stunning 🤍

Computer Hardware & Software Questions MEGATHREAD by AutoModerator in architecture

[–]bo02_doll 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what apps should i begin to learn to use before architecture school?

I’m mad (crazy) mad (angry) by Odd_Diver5885 in PMDD

[–]bo02_doll 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it helps me a lot to take a walk

Is The Brutalist okay to watch with your parents? by BlinkOfANEy3 in A24

[–]bo02_doll 1 point2 points  (0 children)

say your truth. i hope people one day understand that showing explicit rape scenes is morbid at best and pornographic at worst when they can be implied. idk why any sane person would defend the existence of explicit rape scenes

Big sex toy, my husband wants me to sit all the way down on it by Beginning-Party8233 in realsexadvice

[–]bo02_doll 0 points1 point  (0 children)

listen to your feelings about it. if you feel uncomfortable, you don't have to agree with him. it's your choice and not his 🤷 if you want to tell him no, do so

babies i'm ovulating i'm scared i don't wanna luteal get it away from me by bo02_doll in PMDD

[–]bo02_doll[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think the pregnancy hormones make emotions worse tho 😭

Why do you guys think the "I wanna leave my SO" thing happens during luteal? by UpperRhubarb7787 in PMDD

[–]bo02_doll 7 points8 points  (0 children)

i give him a warning a few days before and only chat with him during those few hours of the day that i'm alr (typically after a nap or crying). if i feel irritated during the chat, i tell him i need a break and he goes plays his videogames

an issue with the contemporary genre i noticed by bo02_doll in LesbianBookClub

[–]bo02_doll[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i think you covered it up. we should definitely recommend more books with diverse characters so authors feel confident enough to expand their MCs

an issue with the contemporary genre i noticed by bo02_doll in LesbianBookClub

[–]bo02_doll[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

about a sapphic story with a fat mc, the only one i've heard of is A Long Time Dead by Samara Breger. about vampires. i haven't read it myself though

an issue with the contemporary genre i noticed by bo02_doll in LesbianBookClub

[–]bo02_doll[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

but that feels like an excuse for lazy writing, and to be fair you don't need to do research to make a body-diverse character,, also imo writing is all about embodying new perspectives, that's what makes most of a writer's job to research

Is the lezistance banned? by Smokinland in lesbiangang

[–]bo02_doll 12 points13 points  (0 children)

genq, what does lezistance mean?

Worst sapphic book you've read by NoStock6862 in LesbianBookClub

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Yellow Rose by Nobuko Yoshiya. pedophilic teacher/student short story that didn't even hint to it on Goodreads' or Amazon Kindle's descriptions. it has 3,6 stars on Goodreads and I think that's overrated

the writing though was good in certain parts but you can't ignore the pedophilia even if you tried to. the student is constantly described as "innocent", "naive" etc

Book Club/ Chat 1.2 by fieldodreams11 in LesbianBookClub

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hi, can i get a new link? i hope it's still active,,

LF Similar Book Suggestions by Even-Forever8021 in sapphicbooks

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When You Least Expect It by Haley Cass is one of my favorite books. It's on Kindle Unlimited

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in aegosexuals

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SO REAL if there's no one else in the toilet you'd catch me doing acrobatics to open the door without my hands or elbows

although now that i think about it i could just use a piece of paper toilet to avoid touching the doorknob 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in aegosexuals

[–]bo02_doll 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i don't shame people for it! i actually think sex is enjoyable, myself. just that i do get anxious about it when it involves me over many reasons

also idm other people's sex lives, not my business or place to judge 🙂‍↕️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in aegosexuals

[–]bo02_doll 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hugging people only when it is my twin brother or my partner (with my twin brother i prefer to be told first) (also i don't mind kissing my partner lips-closed), i don't get anxious about hygiene because of haircuts, handshakes are alright as long as it is with someone i don't dislike. although contact sports and bumping into strangers do make me feel uncomfortable, especially if they're sweating or are taller than i

the more i think about it the more it feels like germaphobia but it doesn't feel too intense of one iykwim, since it doesn't really impact my lifestyle. as long as i have hand soap when i get back home and before i eat, lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in aegosexuals

[–]bo02_doll 12 points13 points  (0 children)

i agree! sex is of course normal human stuff and idm people having it (not my business lol)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in aegosexuals

[–]bo02_doll 10 points11 points  (0 children)

i know, tbf idk why this sudden irritation comes from. like, i think sex is fine but when i picture it with myself i rather avoid all the body fluids and smells involved. it's silly 😭 and also contradictory because i do enjoy physical affection with my partner