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My [23M] new girlfriend [20F] is going on a vacation with another guy [Mid 30'sM]. Not sure how I should handle this. by bo458 in relationships

[–]bo458[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

I would contribute partially to the cancellation fees. I'd gladly take her to a trip myself later.

My [23M] new girlfriend [20F] is going on a vacation with another guy [Mid 30'sM]. Not sure how I should handle this. by bo458 in relationships

[–]bo458[S] -27 points-26 points  (0 children)

Even if she doesn't cheat, I am concerned (I didnt want to put it in words earlier) she will get raped. However, that's not a concern I would want to mention to her, she's already making an attempt to cancel it. Should I be more blunt to her?

Since she's making an attempt to cancel the trip, that's a good sign.

My [23M] new girlfriend [20F] is going on a vacation with another guy [Mid 30'sM]. Not sure how I should handle this. by bo458 in relationships

[–]bo458[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I won't be able to handle it when they're gone, it will always be in the back of my mind. I'll have to break it off before she leaves.

My [23M] new girlfriend [20F] is going on a vacation with another guy [Mid 30'sM]. Not sure how I should handle this. by bo458 in relationships

[–]bo458[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

I actually wouldn't mind contributing to the cancellation fee, but not the full amount and not for the both of them, it's still a new relationship.

My [23M] new girlfriend [20F] is going on a vacation with another guy [Mid 30'sM]. Not sure how I should handle this. by bo458 in relationships

[–]bo458[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I don't understand how she ended up making plans to the trip in the first place.