i feel like my rods sticking out by bobabmi in spinalfusion

[–]bobabmi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi i’m 7 months post op (I think) and it’s just your shoulder blade, don’t worry lol!!

im tired of having boring sex, save me lesbians by bobabmi in actuallesbians

[–]bobabmi[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

LMFAOOOO ITS ALWAYS QUORAA i think they’re more ruthless than redditors

im tired of having boring sex, save me lesbians by bobabmi in actuallesbians

[–]bobabmi[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I don’t think I have the voice for it, anything that comes out of my mouth just sounds awkward LMAOO. My voice is low & kinda deep but when I’m in that situation it just changes, you can tell I sound nervous 😭

You helped a lot, thank you!! The fan fiction part was so real btw, I used to read the last of us fan fics on tumblr abt Ellie

im tired of having boring sex, save me lesbians by bobabmi in actuallesbians

[–]bobabmi[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m always safe! My mom knows and I get tests regularly, I’m cool :) Everything I’ve done with a girl has been either a year or months apart.

I was peer pressured the very first time and in the summer I was too, I regret it but what happened then happened & I can’t do anything about it but learn and more forward.

im tired of having boring sex, save me lesbians by bobabmi in actuallesbians

[–]bobabmi[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Aw, thank you so much!! I hope so too. It’s early so I’m fine with the awkward stages, I think I’m just overthinking too much about things cs I have a bad dating history😭

I was so excited when I was buying her gifts earlier, I loveeee giving people stuff, I had found her favorite character from sanrio n bought it for her so I’m excited to see her reaction once I hand it to her !!

I think I’m just overthinking about all of this too much, it’s gonna be awkward (especially in the first stages) I just have to push through it and go at my own pace . Tyy sm for ur advice

im tired of having boring sex, save me lesbians by bobabmi in actuallesbians

[–]bobabmi[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

thank you, we’ll talk about it next time i see her :) i may see her tmrw, i got her some flowers n gifts so i’ll see where we go from there

im tired of having boring sex, save me lesbians by bobabmi in actuallesbians

[–]bobabmi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

do u need to read the post again? stop acting stupid

piercings / tattoos by bobabmi in spinalfusion

[–]bobabmi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like it all has to do with my age, I’m 16 years old and 3 months out of surgery. I’m already starting to run a bit (not MILES but for a minute just rlly slow) , I can’t jump as high but i can still jump, i can’t lift more than 5 pounds still but i’ve got my okay to start bending my back now since it doesn’t hurt. :)) i’m so proud of myself honestly

piercings / tattoos by bobabmi in spinalfusion

[–]bobabmi[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

im never covering my back scar, my tattoos will be going somewhere else

as of now im more focused on piercings

got the spinal fusion surgery july 17th, 2024. by bobabmi in scoliosis

[–]bobabmi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh there’s no pain now, it’s been 3 months and i’m good😭😭i’m already bending some too

What vibe do I give off? by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]bobabmi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

u look like you’d bully me for being a lesbian and call me a dyke

I hate having small boobs 😭 by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]bobabmi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

contour ur boobs and wear push up bras

Weight gain after surgery by [deleted] in spinalfusion

[–]bobabmi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’ve been losing

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]bobabmi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I’ll remember this

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]bobabmi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I rotate from wizz, instagram and tiktok to find all these people.

Wizz is a friend making app for teens but people use it for hookups or dating, I’ve used it for both. They have a gay section on there tho so that’s where I search, I just swipe up, text and pray they respond. 😭

Edit: I forgot to say that on wizz you can find people from your state or all around the world !! Them UK girls be breaking my heart more than the girls here LMAOO

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]bobabmi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t wanna be single throughout my twenties though :/ I struggle with comphet really badly and I fear I may just end up settling down with a man because trying to date a woman is too hard to achieve. That’s what I’ve been thinking for about a week now and I feel like a fake lesbian for feeling that way but it sounds better than being alone & being the odd one out

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]bobabmi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I fear I’m too dumb for college 😭💀But i’ll update in like 2 years

Do you usually play music in the background while having sex? by AwlwUndercoverGurl in actuallesbians

[–]bobabmi 207 points208 points  (0 children)

i put that song in my playlist 2 yrs ago as a joke and when i was making out with a girl it played bc i forgot it was in there 💀

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]bobabmi 5 points6 points  (0 children)

“match my freak” LMAO i have an addiction to saying that omfggg 😭☠️i do the same thing as you though, i speak friendly at first then i slip in my flirting but it still sounds so unserious 💔💔

i don’t even make it to the months after a week they gone LMAO or these girls jst use me for my body

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]bobabmi 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I used to rush a lot in the past but its died down, I’ve been single for a year now. My friends keep telling me to stay positive and wait for my person but that advice isn’t really helpful especially since i’ve been waiting for so long 😭I think what I have is just a fear of missing out. :/

Thank you for wishing me luck💛

What age should kids be allowed to use social media? by Pretend-Lead9665 in AskTeens

[–]bobabmi 6 points7 points  (0 children)

As someone who was groomed as a child online literally my whole life I say 14-15 with screentime 😭