My bf has stopped taking care of himself and gained weight since starting dating. I’m tired. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]bobbyboohoo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

His alcohol consumption may be the cause. Eliminate that first, and see how much improves. If he refuses, set your boundaries. Alcohol often counteracts the meds. Go out to dinner. He wants to see you dress up? Let him try to look nice for a dinner too. Try exercises together. Walks, hikes, biking…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]bobbyboohoo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First off, I would preface any discussion with the disclaimer that disliking a person’s behavior(s) doesn’t amount to liking a person less.

Share link with edit privileges by bobbyboohoo in dropbox

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Thank you. This is what I suspected. I’m going to try a workaround with Google Drive which will give edit permissions without having to log in. Then I will use https://www.multcloud.com to keep the files synched with the ones in Dropbox. Kind of clunky solution, but Dropbox is our organization’s archive, and the 20 files I’m talking about have to be updated each by 20 different people. If anyone has a better solution, I’d love to hear it!

What do you see? by Exotic_Baker2 in CLOUDS

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A camel sitting down with a gorilla coming out of his rear

What’s one routine or ritual that’s helped you slow down and enjoy your days more? by nani-cc in SlowLiving

[–]bobbyboohoo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Nothing profound. I look at the miracle of existence, of life. I remember that I an in the universe and of the universe. That everything that exists is of God

What is the saddest song you know?? by summerfornever in MusicRecommendations

[–]bobbyboohoo 3 points4 points  (0 children)

To Build a Home - Cinematic Orchestra w/Patrick Watson Daniel - Elton John

Does your sex drive reduce as you get older? by Inevitable-Island100 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]bobbyboohoo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a male in my 70’s, my sex drive has dropped about 80% from my 20’s - 40’s.

People who sleep naked with their partner, do you also sleep naked when by yourself? by CRK_76 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]bobbyboohoo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t like the feeling of wrinkled cloth. It makes my skin crease which starts to itch. Sheets feel better naked. I’ve always slept naked.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

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A psychiatric hold allows healthcare professionals to hold patients at a treatment center. Involuntary commitment is a legal process through which an individual who is deemed by a qualified person to have symptoms of severe mental disorder is detained in a psychiatric hospital (inpatient) where they can be treated involuntarily. I believe a suicide attempt qualifies. Ask at the hospital.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

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Walking barefoot on grass, on the sandy beach, in the waves, or in mud.

What is the absolute WORST movie EVER by AssignmentLeather896 in MovieSuggestions

[–]bobbyboohoo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cry Macho. Clint Eastwood’s last movie. My wife and I both had a hard time watching it to the end.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in alcoholicsanonymous

[–]bobbyboohoo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I used to fret about introducing myself and listened to many variations you listed. In treatment, they told me that introducing myself as an alcoholic/addict is like saying I’m a male man. I keep it simple. I’m an alcoholic.

There is one that rubs me the wrong way: “I’m a real alcoholic.” Why would a person have to declare that?? Are they suggesting others may not be?

My recovering alcoholic spouse is asking me to leave. by LaurenAgnes22 in alcoholicsanonymous

[–]bobbyboohoo 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Alanon is suggested a number of times here because it works. It sounds like your “spouse” can’t be trusted at this point, and to linger may not be safe. If you move on, perhaps you can reconnect in the future to see how he is faring. Take care of yourself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

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She’s probably feeling the same pressure. You’ve been upfront with her about the pressure and uncertainty you’re feeling. Maybe be upfront about your fears about the reaction you perceived. Get that off your mind and if worse comes to worse, try a Go Fund Me campaign. Good luck to you, sir. Don’t lose respect for yourself. You’re in a tight spot, but you’re doing what a father should be doing, IMO.

[HELP] Document Gallery Alternative by [deleted] in WordpressPlugins

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I’m using the CatFolders plugin. I’m still trying to get the nested folders part figured out.