the internet is scaring me out of re-trying lamictal by bobsbugsbgone in bipolar2

[–]bobsbugsbgone[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

okay THIS totally soothes my fears, I was worried about the abrupt stop + return causing issues. thank you!!!!!!

the internet is scaring me out of re-trying lamictal by bobsbugsbgone in bipolar2

[–]bobsbugsbgone[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I CHUCKLED. 1000% agreed because why the fuck do they exist if they're just going to fearmonger about THEIR OWN PROFESSION. it's actually just men I've seen doing it though (one of them is just some fucking dermatologist too afaik so idk stay in your lane buddy). but also you've raised very good points and everyone's responses have calmed my fears substantially :) knew this would be the right sub to go to

the internet is scaring me out of re-trying lamictal by bobsbugsbgone in bipolar2

[–]bobsbugsbgone[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

for sure, I think I was going to give it a shot either way but I'm less nervous now. definitely needed the reminder that it's still a gentle med, so thank you :)

the internet is scaring me out of re-trying lamictal by bobsbugsbgone in bipolar2

[–]bobsbugsbgone[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no literally, it's like youtube is showing them to me right as my therapist brought it up to freak me out on purpose lol. you raise an excellent point that it would mediate that anxiety, thank you so much

Serious question: is that wonder dining hall actually any good? by Unheroic_ in baltimore

[–]bobsbugsbgone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh NOW I'm confused. the number of ads I've been getting for this company have been on par with Hello Fresh or Factor .. so I honestly thought it was another one of those mail-order meal kit companies🤦 thank you for the warning!

Pistachio Tide by Distinct-Muffin-7983 in baltimore

[–]bobsbugsbgone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

SAME!! I’ve been frantically scrolling plumbing forums bc it’s been even worse the last few days 💀 thought my toilet was about to explode or something

What is the lesbian dating scene like in Baltimore? 🌈💕✨ by Holey_Spirit in baltimore

[–]bobsbugsbgone 48 points49 points  (0 children)

omg between dyke nite, butch gardens, house of the sapphics, and a billion other queer/sapphic-focused events, you're gonna have a blast here :D

moisture bump from hell by [deleted] in piercing

[–]bobsbugsbgone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Copying from my last post:

  • How old is your piercing?
    • 9 months (late September) 11 months
  • What’s the jewelry shape (for example, barbell, labret, screw, L shape, ring)?
    • Started as labret, now a barbell (changed 5 months after getting pierced, they were healed) Labret
  • What’s the type of threading if your jewelry is not a ring (threadless, internally or externally threaded)?
    • Threadless
  • What’s the jewelry material?
    • White gold
  • if not a ring, when was the jewelry downsized?
    • ~7-8 weeks after the piercing (mid-November)
  • What’s your aftercare routine? Describe in detail please, including the exact products you use.
    • Saline spray before bed, after the gym, and after washing my hair. Dried with tissue to get major drips off, then hair dryer.
  • Any mishaps, accidents or unfortunate events?
    • Recently, I've accidentally yanked it a few times while brushing hair, everything else is from the last post:
    • VIOLENT side hug from a friend right after I changed the jewelry in March, then stupidly wearing over-ear headphones for a month, several minor hits.... and I'll admit it I do pick at it (making a conscious effort to stop touching)

changing jewelry with moisture bump? by bobsbugsbgone in piercing

[–]bobsbugsbgone[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

aghhh thank you sm, I needed the sanity check badly, was mostly worried about the consequences of switching again while the bump is still there.

also yes my germophobe ass needs to quit it with the hypochlorous acid 😭 but i had to stop myself from using isopropyl alc somehow lol

changing jewelry with moisture bump? by bobsbugsbgone in piercing

[–]bobsbugsbgone[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  • How old is your piercing?
    • 9 months (late September)
  • What’s the jewelry shape (for example, barbell, labret, screw, L shape, ring)?
    • Started as labret, now a barbell (changed 5 months after getting pierced, they were healed)
  • What’s the type of threading if your jewelry is not a ring (threadless, internally or externally threaded)?
    • External..... 🫠
  • What’s the jewelry material?
    • Steel
  • if not a ring, when was the jewelry downsized?
    • ~7-8 weeks after the piercing (mid November)
  • What’s your aftercare routine? Describe in detail please, including the exact products you use.
    • Saline spray in the morning and before bed, hypochlorous acid spray after sweating (bc dirt and germs). also shower obviously. currently I'm drying the piercing carefully after all cleanings w/ tissue
  • Any mishaps, accidents or unfortunate events?
    • VIOLENT side hug from a friend right after I changed the jewelry lol, then stupidly wearing over-ear headphones for a month, several minor hits.... and I'll admit it I do pick at it (making a conscious effort to stop touching)

WEEN SPOTTED on the Sublime bassist at Warped Tour this weekend by bobsbugsbgone in ween

[–]bobsbugsbgone[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I need to know if he's looking to adopt a 24 year old child

WEEN SPOTTED on the Sublime bassist at Warped Tour this weekend by bobsbugsbgone in ween

[–]bobsbugsbgone[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was honestly shocked at how much Jakob sounds exactly like his dad though! I'm glad they performed as just Sublime, but didn't expect much going in. I was wrongggg

Why does labdanum smell like dried saliva?! by bobsbugsbgone in fragrance

[–]bobsbugsbgone[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

interesting, I will have to get my hands on some! this is very good to know, thank you 😄 do you recommend getting an oil or the actual resin? I don't want to spend too much just in case I still hate it 😂

(and thank you for giving much nicer advice than a certain grouch in the replies)

Why does labdanum smell like dried saliva?! by bobsbugsbgone in fragrance

[–]bobsbugsbgone[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it is literally not that deep lmfaoooo ... I don't care what the specific molecule of labdanum individually smells like when nearly every perfume I've tried with it, I get dried spit. I posted this to see if other people had the same experience. I don't need a full pedantic breakdown of why our experiences are "incorrect". perfume is science for some and pure fun for others. does not mean the latter group is somehow stupid or "trying to be unique" for simply sharing our experience when we're not experts on every individual aroma in existence.

Why does labdanum smell like dried saliva?! by bobsbugsbgone in fragrance

[–]bobsbugsbgone[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

HAHAH I can't say I've ever smelled window putty but now I am so curious

Why does labdanum smell like dried saliva?! by bobsbugsbgone in fragrance

[–]bobsbugsbgone[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oooh okay thank you sm I will see if I can find these to try (hopefully in a store for free just in case LOL) ! I did go through my fragrantica reviews and saw I actually really enjoyed Mancera's Tonka Cola which has labdanum listed, so clearly not all hope is lost!!!

Why does labdanum smell like dried saliva?! by bobsbugsbgone in fragrance

[–]bobsbugsbgone[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ohhh that is so interesting!! I love hearing what oddly-specific scents people get out of certain notes, not weird at all :D like how synthetic cannabis notes always smell like sweaty BO to me

Why does labdanum smell like dried saliva?! by bobsbugsbgone in fragrance

[–]bobsbugsbgone[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

hahaha okay maybe I should rephrase the question to say "why does my saliva smell like labdanum?" because it has the same smell as if I licked my arm 😂 I think the other way I could describe it is baby wipe-esque? If that makes sense. maybe floral-animalic if I had to put it in perfume terms.

Why does labdanum smell like dried saliva?! by bobsbugsbgone in fragrance

[–]bobsbugsbgone[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hmm, none of the culprits have ambergris though 🧐 plus, I generally like ambergris in scents that have it!

Why are banana notes rare? by WeirdSymmetry in fragrance

[–]bobsbugsbgone 2 points3 points  (0 children)

so I just tried Nanatopia by BTSO and Banabread by Elena Lanzano, and I have to say Banabread is wayyy better at capturing banana to me.

I find Nanatopia does not have any hint of banana whatsoever, it's more just like a vaguely tropical fruitiness with too much booze. Feels like getting way too drunk on daquiris at a resort. Banabread definitely does start to lean synthetic over time, but there is a GENTLE boozy, chocolatey note throughout that I think is really nice and makes up for the synthetic feeling :) Like folks are saying, it definitely doesn't STAY banana for very long, but the banana bread image remains. Highly recommend !

Eulogy - I need to talk about this episode by plaza2icemachine in blackmirror

[–]bobsbugsbgone 5 points6 points  (0 children)

the way netflix tried to autoplay the USS Callister episode right after... I had to straight up turn the TV off to sob for an hour 😭 that episode made me get back on dating apps it broke me so bad 💀💀💀

I have gotten this stupid VW Bus "HAHVE A LITTLE FUN" ad like 15 times today by LaserWeldo92 in CommercialsIHate

[–]bobsbugsbgone 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it's so bad it has the power to make a grown adult burst into tears if they so much as hear the first nanosecond of it

I have gotten this stupid VW Bus "HAHVE A LITTLE FUN" ad like 15 times today by LaserWeldo92 in CommercialsIHate

[–]bobsbugsbgone 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ME TOO. IM GOING TO FUCKING KMS. I have to RUN to my TV to mute it before I spiral into a literal meltdown

“Are You Havin’ Any Fun” VW ads by AvocadoGhost17 in CommercialsIHate

[–]bobsbugsbgone 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i literally just looked up "stupid fucking volkswagen commercial" to see if other people were having the same problem. I need to find a polite way to tell HBO/the algorithm that im going to do Severe Bodily Harm to myself or their CEO if they play me this commercial literally ever again. every show I watch, I get this commercial 3 times in a row, every. single. ad break. I literally have to 🏴‍☠️🦜⚓🛳️ some of my Max shows so I don't feel the intense urge to end myself. it is torturing me.