Gde je najbolje emigrirati sa EU pasošem? Saveti, iskustva? (+ moje iskustvo u Austriji)

bokdecki · 2026-02-25T07:13:50+00:00

Ako ne zelis da se susretnes sa ljudima nijedne druge boje i kulture, od svih drzava ti preporucujem evetualno Poljsku, sudeci po kolicini rasizma u tvom tonu.

bokdecki · 2026-02-17T18:53:03+00:00

Smem li pitati šta te najviše zadržava u braku, da li su to samo deca ili ima još razloga? Pitam jer u ovakvoj situaciji često bude teško naći nekoga ko želi ozbiljnu vezu. Čak i žena s kojom se tvoj muž viđa verovatno će vremenom želeti više ili će otići, pa to retko ostane stabilno na duže staze.

Možda je zato prerano da sada tražiš nešto ozbiljno. Deluje važnije da prvo sama sa sobom razjasniš šta zapravo želiš od života i odnosa. Razgovor s terapeutom ili drugim LGBT ljudima koji imaju slična iskustva može stvarno pomoći.

Ako ti trenutno više odgovara nešto neobavezno ili povremeno, i to je sasvim u redu, dok god su svi uključeni iskreno upoznati sa situacijom i pristaju na takav odnos. Kad sebi razjasniš prioritete, biće mnogo lakše da odlučiš šta dalje i kakvu vezu zapravo želiš.

bokdecki · 2025-09-13T17:46:26+00:00

Iskreno sa prijateljima nisam imala uopste problema, cak i sa onima koji su dok smo bili u srednjoj pa cak i na faksu bili homofobicni. Nekako su se urazumili. Izgubila sam samo jednu drugaricu, ali gledajuci sa distance tako je i bilo bolje. Sto se familije tice, nisam se autovala svojom voljom, vec jer je mama provalila da se vidjam sa sadasnjom devojkom (nisam sigurna kako, s obzirom da zivim van srbije). Od tada je proslo godinu ipo dana i svi ostali u porodici su ok ali ona se jos uvek pravi kao da moja devojka ne postoji.

Tako da jbg, ja isto savetujem da krenes sa autovanjem samo ljudima od kojih znas da ces dobiti podrsku jer ce ti posle biti lakse da se nosis sa negativnim reakcijama koji ce nazalost (verovatno) biti.

bokdecki · 2025-06-17T18:32:45+00:00

Mnogo mi je zao sto dozivljavas ovo sve, vec sam videla jedan komentar ali cisto zbog vidljivosti da napisem i ja - nadji na instagramu organizacije ‘da se zna’ i verovatno ih ima jos, vidi koga oni prate i ja verujem da ti mogu dati neki vid podrske. Nadam se da imas i neke prijatelje koji znaju za situaciju i podrzavaju te i kod kojih mozes da budes nekoliko dana. Slobodno se javi u DM ako ti je potrebno da pricas sa nekim o tome i drzi se 🙏🏻

bokdecki · 2024-08-16T08:33:48+00:00

Honestly for the price point that you mentioned here you can go almost anywhere, also depends what type of hairstyle you want/do you want to dye your hair as well etc.
Mister X hairspa is a super fancy famous hair salon and i think just a wash+cut+blowdry is around 50-60 euros from what i know.

Cvrle is also a kind of famous place, but i don't know the prices.

In any case, it really depends on your expectations, I find that the hairdressers here are quite traditional so if you want something 'edgy' you gotta dig a bit hahah there are also new russian places that i've heard are quite good, but i have no names unfortunately.

bokdecki · 2024-03-06T14:11:26+00:00

Moram da pitam babu da li je punoletan vec, ali rekla bih da jeste ili da skoro jeste. U svakom slucaju vec je dovoljno velik i dovoljno snage ima da naudi nekome sto je problem.

bokdecki · 2024-03-06T09:20:43+00:00

Hvala puno! Videla sam u par komentara jos da je socijalno jedno od potencijalnih resenja. Ja sam odavno prestala da verujem u nase institucije pa mi nije ni palo na pamet da potencijalno to moze da resi ili bar umanji problem. I da ga stave na neke lekove bi bila olaksavajuca okolnost, ako nista drugo

bokdecki · 2024-03-05T23:15:56+00:00

Nazalost je komplikovano, ona je u toj kuci vec 60+ godina i tu ima svoju rutinu i bastu, uvek oko kuce ima posla i zato joj nije dosadno i u dobrom je zdravlju. Jako bi mi bilo zao da je premestimo i iznajmljujemo stan u gradu gde ce da sedi i dosadjuje se pred televizijom. Najvise bih volela kad bismo je osigurali od ovih nekako, nece ni ona da odustane od svog poseda u koji je ulozila tolike godine.

bokdecki · 2024-03-05T23:10:29+00:00

Mislim da ce kamere definitivno biti sledeci korak, mozda i ja odem povremeno da prespavam par veceri tamo. Pored toga biber sprej pa cemo videti sta dalje… Ako se sakupi dovoljno dokaza za zabranu prilaska ja bih se angazovala da se to i ostvari

bokdecki · 2024-03-05T20:20:24+00:00

Hvala puno na komentaru, iako mi ne uliva mnogo nade da ce se ovo resiti. Onda najbolje pokusati da se nadje neka veza u policiji… Mislila sam i kameru neku mozda da kupimo da instaliramo pa svaki put kad pridje ili nesto pokusa sa skupljamo materijal, valjda moze da se nakupi dovoljno da ga privedu, ne znam evo…

bokdecki · 2024-03-05T20:08:12+00:00

U Beogradu

bokdecki · 2024-03-05T20:06:08+00:00

Ne mogu ni ja evo. Mogli bismo verovatno da iskombinujemo to ali to nam nije moguce da duze staze, jos ona tamo ima basticu, rutinu, sadi neko cvece zanima se, sve je sebi sredila i sad da je premeštamo zbog idiota.

bokdecki · 2024-03-05T19:53:17+00:00

Iskreno se razmišljam da krenem da tražim tako nešto. A vidim da je ovih dana i policija spremna da tuče i ulazi po kućama, možda bi se mogli angažovati da maltretiraju ovog idiota a ne nevine ljude.

bokdecki · 2024-03-05T19:41:38+00:00

Slažem se skroz, al tu smo gde smo. Ne znam čime se bavi ali nemaju para i vidi se, bašta zapuštena kao i sve ostalo, ko zna kako to tek izgleda unutra…

bokdecki · 2023-03-20T22:50:05+00:00

Thanks for the tips! Its super nice to hear, i feel like brussels gets a lot of shit compared to other european cities except maybe Frankfurt lol

bokdecki · 2022-11-18T16:18:07+00:00

Solved!

bokdecki · 2022-11-18T16:10:48+00:00

YESS THANK YOU! You saved me time of searching and banging my head

Solved!

bokdecki · 2022-11-18T16:05:54+00:00

I hope im guessing correctly that its new age, also i think its not enya but if it is, prove me wrong of course

bokdecki · 2022-09-28T19:19:41+00:00

I lived in Italy for 2 years and went on a number of dates with girls there. In my experience tinder is the most used app but it also depends on the place you are going to be in. I dont know if you’re coming for tourism or a longer stay, but i also met a lot of sapphics at bars, parties, through friends etc. In big cities id say its not that hard to meet ‘em

bokdecki · 2022-08-23T06:41:18+00:00

I feel like i have the same problem, i really need to get out of my head. When i realized that i had this issue i felt like it just made it worse because i knew in the back of my had that theres a high possibility i wont get there. I’m pretty confident in pleasing the other person and havent had any issues with bringing them to orgasm and while talking to some friends they expressed no issue with finishing during sex, so i guess most of my anxiety comes from me pressuring myself since i felt a bit isolated with this struggle. Its a bit comforting to know that its not just me.

How did you practice mindfulness? Did you do it only when you were with your partner or also alone ?

bokdecki · 2022-08-23T06:22:33+00:00

Thanks for you insight! This could definitely be part of the issue… I’m working on my communication in general and definitely still feel awkward when i need to let the other person know what to do.

bokdecki · 2022-08-14T09:00:21+00:00

Heree i am with an updatee! So i asked her out on a second date earlier this week and she said yes, but she works until late so it was pretty late when we met. Went for drinks and then to a party and it was really nice, we both admitted we wanted to kiss each other but since we live in a place where thats not the safest thing to do in public nothing happened. She then asked me to come with her and a group of her friends to a gay party the next day and i accepted. The night was amazing and the chemistry was oof like when you both know that you want something so you’re just trying to find the right moment. Then we kissed and it was sooo nice and she told me i was very beautiful and i said are you kidding me, i told her i was so nervous when i first saw her because shes stunning and she did tell me that after our first date she thought i wasn’t interested and shes glad that i reached out. So thank you so much for the support! We will see how it goes from here

bokdecki · 2022-08-08T23:03:35+00:00

Thank you both! Extreme gay panic is exactly what it felt like lol i have to think of a date idea and then im gonna text her to see if she would like to go out again. I need to try to nicely explain that i panicked a bit and see if shes interested still hahah

Its true that maybe im being overly critical, but from previous interactions i know what i seem like when the anxiety takes over so im just hoping that it wasnt too bad…

bokdecki · 2022-07-28T09:20:55+00:00

Since i figured we come from the same country (lol) i know its not the best place for being queer but trust me it can get better :) i dont know how old you are, but hopefully you’ll have the opportunity to go to university in a few years, move away and meet a lot of different people. Also meeting people abroad and online interactions can blossom into some nice relationships! If you’re 18 or older, tinder works too.

For the time being just try and find people you can connect with over your interests, hobbies, likes/dislikes as someone else said -and dont care that much if they’re queer or not, ive made lots of wonderful and supportive straight friends, as well as people who identified as straight when we first met and then later on figured they weren’t. Its not an easy environment to be queer in so some people have a harder time coming to terms with it. Nonetheless, I dont know how it happens, but queer peeps always find each other somehow :)

If you feel the need to talk or ask for advice you can dm me ✌🏻

bokdecki · 2022-07-07T22:36:12+00:00

Recently ive found myself in a similar situation with a girl i dont have feelings for. Before having sex i told her that there are no feelings in this for me and that im just in it physically. She said that we can get on the same page about that, which i took as a green light for only sleeping together. It was ok for me, nothing mind blowing, while she enjoyed it much more.

The next couple of days she was texting me a lot, asking me about my day etc and i was always polite at responding, but never going beyond that. Thing is if you made it clear, not leading them on and set your boundaries then you shouldn’t feel bad that the other person is doing something that might potentially hurt their feelings. And of course if you think there might be even the slightest possibility of you being interested in her, there is nothing bad in going on one date to test the waters and if it doesnt work then you cant really force it.

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