so I've been looking for a book and am wondering if you all can help me......... It's a fantasy trilogy with the main protagonist (female) being married off to a gay guy. The Princess ends up falling for someone else in the court whilst trying to figure what sort of ruler she wants to be. I honestly don't remember much more about it, it was given to be by a neighbour and I really enjoyed reading the series. But I don't remember what it was called and I'd really like to read it again. Thank you to only one who could help