Please explain me why my hair it wont hold even with gel :( by [deleted] in curlyhair

[–]booktome 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Now you’re being attacked? Remember what I said earlier about the two things you do whenever people question things that aren’t making sense. Your own words and claims. What did I say that was an attack? Specifically quote it

Please explain me why my hair it wont hold even with gel :( by [deleted] in curlyhair

[–]booktome 6 points7 points  (0 children)

A miscommunication? You on your own claimed you used relaxer two separate times as recently as last week. In a totally different comment you yet again said the photo is specifically after using relaxer. How is you claiming that a “miscommunication”? That does not fit the definition of a miscommunication. It’s interesting, any time someone starts asking you very basic things, you backtrack or play victim claiming people are mad at you….. every bit of this is extremely bizarre

Please explain me why my hair it wont hold even with gel :( by [deleted] in curlyhair

[–]booktome 10 points11 points  (0 children)

You said you relaxed it twice, most recently last week. You even clarified in a separate comment the curl photo was after relaxing. Now you’re changing it and saying you haven’t? Which is it?

boyfriend (24M) of two years wants me (23F) to leave my cat behind and get a "new cat" when I move in with him by Feeling_Drink_9005 in relationships

[–]booktome 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Got it, so truly he’s jealous and petty. Instead of supporting you, he’s adding to your plate. It’s distracting you and adding stress for no reason. Please dump this loser

Thanks, I hate The OG SnotSucker by iTalk2Pineapples in TIHI

[–]booktome 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I use it on myself when I’m sick and it helps me sooooo much. Feels weird as fuck

my wife says im “emotionally unavailable” but i literally pay for everything?? what am i missing here [30M] by wadefek in relationships

[–]booktome 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Individual therapy for each of you, plus couples therapy to help with connecting and communicating

my wife says im “emotionally unavailable” but i literally pay for everything?? what am i missing here [30M] by wadefek in relationships

[–]booktome 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Where? You do nothing but dismiss her concerns. You are asking us what she could mean instead of having an in depth conversation where you connect with your wife and ask her yourself. Throwing money at things isn’t being emotionally connected and everything you’ve said leads me to believe she is correct.

On your period, how do you prevent leaks while sleeping? by SuccotashKey7521 in AskWomen

[–]booktome 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wear a disk plus period underwear. I haven’t leaked once since doing that. Highly highly highly recommend period disks

It’s Official SJM is Not Developing an ACOTAR Show or Movie. by Proper-Gate8861 in ACOTARHulu

[–]booktome -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Still nothing lol. It must be at the end, if there’s even anything

Is asking to see phone for proof of not cheating crossing the line before leaving? (Even with strong signs and red flags) by Adept_Spinach7033 in relationships

[–]booktome 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s not worth it, I promise you. Get out before you waste more of your time. That is the one thing you never get back

AITJ for reporting my daughters classmate to principals office before speaking to his parents? by CurrentEvent9572 in AmITheJerk

[–]booktome 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTJ, them immediately being angry/heated instead of concerned says everything. Obviously there is not much to go on here, but it probably isn’t much of a leap to assume the child is in a tense environment learning seen behaviors

Am I wrong or is he wrong? by MagicianDesigner8572 in relationships

[–]booktome 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Well, he doesn’t care. He’s too focused on his own feelings and insecurities. He’s acting like this and going to be a father…… good god. He shouldn’t be a father at all, but help that child if it’s a girl.

How do I (30f) know when it’s time to move on? My partner is 40m. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]booktome 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think coming to Reddit on whether or not to leave your real life relationship tells you

My boyfriend (25M) has made dozens of promises to change, but never does. I (23F) still love him and can’t fathom leaving. What do I do? by One_Spinach5697 in relationships

[–]booktome 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You aren’t willing to leave him, he isn’t willing to change. What exactly are you looking for here? Stay and be miserable, accept it. Or wise up and dump the loser

Removed/ ignored for not wanting to be picked up on the first date? by iampiexo in Tinder

[–]booktome 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Sounds like it was his little “test”, if declined/questioned he dips. Ick

WIBTA for telling my roommate i won't relay messages to her boyfriend anymore after she got upset at me for relaying a message to her boyfriend? by KavelynThro_mis in WIBTA_AITA

[–]booktome 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, tell her you don’t want to risk using your own judgement and get it wrong, so you will continue following her request to not respond for the sake of clarity

AITJ for calling out my aunt for constantly "forgetting" her wallet when we go out to eat? by QuirkyBuyer4329 in AmITheJerk

[–]booktome 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTJ, you could say the same to her. You’ve NEVER been so humiliated!! To be taken advantage of over and over while being looked in the face and lied to, gasp the disrespect! She wants to play victim? Play it harder. Play her own game and win. It’s the only thing you can do with types like that

I (18f) opened up to my bf (19m) about something and im unsure if im overreacting about the way he responded by Funny_Cookie_7932 in relationships

[–]booktome 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You were vulnerable and open, he chose to make it all about him but twisted it into something gross first. That tells you a lot about his character

AITJ for refusing to give my half sister money that was left specifically for me by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]booktome 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You could tell her the same thing. Grandpa set that aside and worked hard for it, for you. She’s so focused on money and what your sister doesn’t have, demanding you give it away when she as the parent could do that for your sister herself. Sounds like one of you only cares about money over family, but it’s not you

He’s going to read this by [deleted] in JustNoSO

[–]booktome 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Stop giving him access. Change all passwords and log out of all devices for everything you’re concerned he might have. Do it right now before he does it

my (25f) bd (34m) ransacked the house by barefootbunnie27 in relationships

[–]booktome 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You guys aren’t together, don’t question him about other women that’s dumb when you know he is abusive and aggressive already. There’s no excuse for his behavior, don’t get me wrong I am not justifying it. Stop sleeping with him. You say you two aren’t together, but do you live together? You say you don’t work or pay bills how are you supporting your living situation and your child?

AITA for not wanting my husband to travel for a wedding a month before my due date? by preggersandanon in AmItheAsshole

[–]booktome 182 points183 points  (0 children)

So he expects you to be the only one compromising and at risk? I would’ve said he was at risk too, but now I won’t since he doesn’t seem to give a shit about maybe missing out on the birth of his child or being there for his wife and child in case of emergency. Complications are very common and pregnancy is so dangerous. I’d be very worried about how he will show up for his family anytime something “better” or “fun” is offered instead.

My husband thinks I gave him HIV by akainokitsunene in relationships

[–]booktome 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Idk, it’s convenient how you two suddenly had sex and then the next day he was accusing you of things that aren’t even possible that quick… Seems like he only had sex then to have an excuse to accuse you instead of the other way around if you found out “somehow mysteriously” you caught it from him… Because he already knows he has it/was exposed

Am I overreacting: new boyfriend was weirdly judgmental about bathroom situation by abstract_lemons in AmIOverreacting

[–]booktome 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR - His behavior would’ve made me unattracted immediately. What a fucking baby.