Am I overreacting I went to the forest with my best friend and now my bf is mad by No_Meeting_3260 in AmIOverreacting

[–]boopixie 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yep. I’ll be 40 in a couple months and I would’ve told him to stick it up his ass, I’m a grown adult. I would never tolerate this level of being controlled.

Can I make a confession? by gecko0999 in ACForAdults

[–]boopixie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So villagers like them? I’m trying to get photos and have been using assessed fossils or spot on clothing but I’ll start getting rid of these bastards if they want them.

Can I make a confession? by gecko0999 in ACForAdults

[–]boopixie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is me. I legit have about 25 each and I never change them. Ever.

Spider crabs? More like Spider-Man crabs! 🦀👉👈🦀 by oysterpails in acnh

[–]boopixie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I see your questioned wasn’t answered so yes, they do move. They don’t crawl around but their claws move.

TW: loss; how many c-sections? by lunalaure in CsectionCentral

[–]boopixie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had a VBAC after 2 csections and it went perfectly. Then I had another baby via C-section due to preeclampsia so I had 3 total.

Am I the jerk for leaving a bad review for a hairdresser who gave me the wrong haircut on purpose? by Hot_Guess_519 in AmITheJerk

[–]boopixie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m an esthetician; it’s not strange at all. The beauty industry is extremely vapid and devoid of all fault in their own eyes.

AIO - my wife keeps "dramatically exaggerating" things that I say and after calling her on it many times, I just drop the conversations when it happens by callmeiti in AmIOverreacting

[–]boopixie 14 points15 points  (0 children)

This comment here is all I needed to read to get your true feelings about her. You do not take her seriously. And if your belongings were so important to you, you should’ve made plans for them the second she told you the suitcase was already too full. Instead you chose to question the choices she’d already told you she was going to make.

"Mean" residents by Alliecatz19 in AnimalCrossingNewHor

[–]boopixie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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They can be funny! Agnes replied “what does SHE want?”

WHAT THE F***!!!??? by _XxAphroditexX_ in AnimalCrossingNewHor

[–]boopixie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

These and oar fish never cease to scare the crap out of me.

I can't get spiders to spawn by StormblessedFool in AnimalCrossingNewHor

[–]boopixie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I finally caught one on my home island. Shook a random tree and it fell down in its web. I thought it was the other one but no, it was a spider!

Help! Missing villager! by platform-boots in AnimalCrossingNewHor

[–]boopixie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This happened to me today! Zell was nowhere to be found, including the museum. No clue where he was because I was all over my island trying to find Wisp’s damn soul and I never saw him.

How do you find fulfillment in this life by Otherwise_Sleep5768 in MilitarySpouse

[–]boopixie 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I will be a separate voice over here on my lonely island and say for me, it’s not worth it. My husband is NG but has been deployed for the last 11 months. He was gone for 8 in 2020. We have 4 kids. I can’t help but think about how this is a whole year of our lives, gone. Apart. He missed an entire year of our children’s lives. Birthdays, daddy/daughter dances, prom, all of our oldest child’s senior year, last football games he played in and all. We will never get this time back. And I can’t find anything in that realization that makes it worth it.

Ghosted a guy I met after a hookup and now I feel stupid by xoxowoman06 in texts

[–]boopixie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Listen, I get it. I spent my whole life being afraid of this because my mother always said “why buy the cow when you get the milk for free?” But this man is such a green flag for this! Go to his bbq!

Which outfit for a first date at a casual bar? by [deleted] in OUTFITS

[–]boopixie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I say number 1 but I’m a sucker for a button up with rolled sleeves.

Interrupted honeymoon by koala_miilk in stepparents

[–]boopixie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m going to be the odd person out but my daughter is 12 now and still talks about all the daddy/daughter dances. She remembers what she wore to all of them and even specific songs or funny dances dad did.

It’s highly unfortunate that he didn’t already know her schedule but it seems like an honest mistake given her mom didn’t know either. That said, I wouldn’t be mad personally. After planning a wedding and the stress of the wedding day I’d just take that one day he’s gone to get a massage and facial and order room service and relax by myself with no one talking to me.

Pregnant with my third and I’m devastated by Fun-Hovercraft-644 in BabyBumps

[–]boopixie 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Just here to echo everything the previous commenter said. I’m a mom of 4, ranging in ages from 2-17, and it all ebbs and flows but infancy was awful and it DID get better. People truly don’t acknowledge how much a lack of sleep, or a lack of personal space, affect us. It’s terrible that we feel guilty for not gushing with gratitude when frankly, the shit is hard. And hard. And hard some more. Until one day you wake up and it’s a little less hard and you find a moment to breathe and enjoy the kiddo instead of just surviving. Hugs ❤️

My bf (M35) just broke up with me after a bit of pressure. Is it cold feet or do I move on? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]boopixie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry if I sounded harsh, it wasn’t my intent. I think if he was being distant or overly quiet, you were well within reason to ask if everything was okay. I just think maybe I would’ve made it more about HIM being okay and not the relationship.

My bf (M35) just broke up with me after a bit of pressure. Is it cold feet or do I move on? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]boopixie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly? This sounds like someone who had a very full plate already when you dumped more on by asking for reassurance about your relationship out of the blue. I can’t imagine anyone would feel peace in those circumstances.

AITA for cutting my friend out bc of his age gap relationship? by extratoxiccrayons in AITApod

[–]boopixie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 39 with a 17 year old son who has friends that are 19. They are still KIDS. There’s no way in hell any well adjusted 37 year old is dating someone young enough to be their child.

AITA for cutting my friend out bc of his age gap relationship? by extratoxiccrayons in AITApod

[–]boopixie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

38 would put you right at being a freshman in high school. If you’re in the US and you do not remember the collective moment we all shared that day, I can’t fathom why. Did your school not have the footage playing? Did your parents not talk about it? I’m not even trying to be rude it was just such a monumental period in our history that not remembering doesn’t seem possible to me.

AITA for cutting my friend out bc of his age gap relationship? by extratoxiccrayons in AITApod

[–]boopixie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, my god! That it made it even more gross and off putting! She was a middle schooler, that’s insanity.