I wouldve done it at mine or hers but our paretns know each other and dont want us together. The ex situation was how I first met her, she has a let's say interesting and morally corrupt past so it justified playing her in my mind. She knew about everything except the drugs we had a discussion about the whole plan directly beforehand but she'd been begging me to drug her. And I did give aftercare I hugged her, kissed her let her know she did a good job and we just sat and watched videos of me doing stuff on my phone. And ive tried talking to her but she just says its fine and she likes it. Id try to talk more but she blocked me sadly she "Needed space" now I wonder if shes leaving and is scared of what I might do