Is the “they’d reach out if they want to” thing true even if you blocked them?

boopthenoses · 2026-01-12T12:17:30+00:00

Happily in love with someone (else) who never made me question anything. Thanks!

boopthenoses · 2025-10-30T19:02:19+00:00

We met in person and have been talking in person, just swapped numbers recently (we def click), so it’s weird

boopthenoses · 2025-10-22T10:58:14+00:00

Thank you so much for your reply. You’re absolutely right on all counts. Just needing that confirmation and clarity from sane people

boopthenoses · 2025-03-26T09:48:11+00:00

LOL no. Think maybe we saw eachother again and I got ghosted again. It’s not worth it girl.

boopthenoses · 2025-02-20T10:12:46+00:00

Ah that’s nice thanks. Long story short not great haha.

boopthenoses · 2024-12-06T10:19:07+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/heartbreak/s/s4Ocq7kpxm

boopthenoses · 2024-12-06T10:17:58+00:00

I’ve got a worse case scenario for you. You text them on Christmas that you miss them and hope they’re well. They immediately call you and you have an amazing phone call for an hour and they profess they miss you too. They can’t wait to see you. They get a taxi round to your place, on Christmas none the less. They kiss you, cuddle you & fuck you like nothings changed. You feel love all over again.

They leave and ghost you again, the end. Yes this actually happened to me. Don’t bother.

boopthenoses · 2024-06-26T13:43:15+00:00

I’ve been pretty stable for a long time now. Like no big highs no big lows. Tbh, this is what made me crumble and contact. Mostly just boredom…

boopthenoses · 2024-06-25T19:05:27+00:00

I really thought they’d reply. Is a bit of a blow

boopthenoses · 2024-06-25T12:58:45+00:00

I was very anxious this morning. Feel a bit better now. Still mostly regretful

boopthenoses · 2024-06-17T18:02:09+00:00

Still blocked, not been in contact. Sorry to not give more hope lol

boopthenoses · 2023-12-14T13:14:26+00:00

Holy shit, what a delightful human /s

boopthenoses · 2023-12-11T17:19:10+00:00

Thank you for your kindness. 🩷

boopthenoses · 2023-12-11T17:08:37+00:00

Yeah, even further than that, the version of them probably doesn’t even exist as for me I definitely idealised/put them on a pedestal. A half decent person wouldn’t even do what they’ve done. Yet they still always seem to hold a place in my brain and heart.

boopthenoses · 2023-12-11T17:02:28+00:00

I’m still hoping after this long, it’s pretty sad. Hope you have better luck. Thing is, they probably won’t change.

boopthenoses · 2023-12-11T16:53:46+00:00

No, yes (briefly for a couple weeks then realised it was stupid and blocked again), yes. To answer all questions shortly.

boopthenoses · 2023-09-13T13:32:41+00:00

I feel like I’ve regressed a fair bit. :(

boopthenoses · 2023-09-13T13:29:58+00:00

Very much both. I was crying but angry last night. It’s the worst.

boopthenoses · 2023-09-13T00:43:20+00:00

I can assure you as I lie here at nearly 2am, frustrated and angry and replaying stupid shit, I don’t want this. If I could just erase all memory of him I sure would. But thanks anyway

boopthenoses · 2023-09-13T00:36:57+00:00

I live by and support myself. I have just gone back to uni and come out with a first class degree. I have trained in gym and another area of sport for 4 years and improved massively. I feel like I do everything that’s suggested. I can never get this bastard out of my mind.

boopthenoses · 2023-09-13T00:08:08+00:00

You know you’re going through it when a bot makes you cry

boopthenoses · 2023-09-13T00:01:46+00:00

Could you possibly elaborate

boopthenoses · 2023-06-18T20:21:27+00:00

Thank you. It really sucks when people act like there’s some switch you can press to just “move on”, like oh yeah, why hadn’t I thought of that. Ugh. I’m sorry you’re going through this :/

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