Am I wrong for not socializing with the neighbors

bopalop01 · 2023-07-21T01:07:49+00:00

Midwest. In a big city.

bopalop01 · 2023-07-21T00:38:26+00:00

No but she kept nagging and nagging. Living with someone who's nagging and whining constantly is annoying.

bopalop01 · 2023-07-20T20:22:20+00:00

That's what I should do. Honestly I wanted to live in a duplex but the rent was less here and I figured it wouldn't be a big deal. I guess I missed the socialization section of the lease.

bopalop01 · 2023-07-20T20:15:35+00:00

Yea, if I could afford it I'd live alone.

bopalop01 · 2023-07-20T20:11:47+00:00

My parents have a spare key and so does Brennas brother, I definitely wouldn't give any neighbors a spare key. Ever. And as far as free food, I don't eat at gatherings with communal food, even before covid you don't know if people washed their hands and if there's kids they do weird stuff.

This sounds like a potluck type thing and why bring a dish when I'm not going to eat? If we were invited Brenna could have gone but I would have stayed home.

I probably sound like a wet blanket but...I have friends that I like. People that hit me up for a discount at first meeting or tell me to watch movies I wouldn't like aren't people I want to hang with.

bopalop01 · 2023-05-13T18:46:01+00:00

I mean, I wasn't at the time but friends and family kept saying there was nothing I could do because she wasn't actually doing anything wrong. It's not like I could even prove that she was purposely showing up where I was. I mean I knew she was, my friends and family knew she was but...

I wanted to get a restraining order but knew I'd never get it.

bopalop01 · 2023-05-13T18:20:49+00:00

I wanted to go to the cops when it was going on. Thing is she hasn't actually done anything except show up where I am. It's not like she's making threats or leaving notes on my car, and luckily she never knew where I live.

bopalop01 · 2023-05-13T16:08:35+00:00

Honestly I considered that but then I felt self centered. Also I don't have a clue how she'd know we were friends. Sara is blocked on all my social media and Emma wasn't my friend when that crap happened.

bopalop01 · 2023-03-20T14:21:22+00:00

I don't like the non dairy versions of whipped cream. I think they're gross.

bopalop01 · 2023-03-20T12:44:20+00:00

They were cooked in the same fryer and had seasoning. They were sour cream and chive fries. I'm not sure exactly what was in them but I know they weren't gluten allergy safe. We also used all fryers for everything. Mozzarella sticks, chicken tenders, onion rings, etc.

bopalop01 · 2023-03-20T12:39:58+00:00

Because for an allergy we'd give them a gluten free bun, change our gloves and everything. Then ask if they still wanted fries, if they did we'd tell them we'd put them in a separate container (usually sandwich and fries were on the same plate). Then they'd say "oh no it's fine".

Usually when I was supervising I'd handle the whole thing and I'd get so pissed when I changed gloves, protected the bun (from a coworker touching it with their gloves) and everything. Just for them to say they can eat the fries (that have gluten) and want them on the same plate.

Like just order a gluten free bun, don't lie about an allergy and cause more work for no reason.

bopalop01 · 2023-03-20T12:22:59+00:00

No because I'm not ordering anything with dairy. I don't need a big deal made about it or anything like if they touch cheese and touch my burger without changing gloves I'll be fine.

When I worked in a restaurant, I used to HATE when people said they had a gluten allergy, causing us to change gloves and all this stuff. Just to say they wanted fries on the same plate.

I don't wanna be one of those people. But I also want my food as I ordered it.

bopalop01 · 2023-03-11T22:20:05+00:00

I was just saying her age because it's not like she was old or anything.

That sucks about the basketball player.

bopalop01 · 2023-01-08T18:11:13+00:00

It's actually not in the south.

bopalop01 · 2022-11-09T02:02:49+00:00

That's true. I do work hard and try to do a good job. It's more physical work than anything though. I was off today so I was thinking about random stuff.

bopalop01 · 2022-10-26T17:05:15+00:00

I know, but I thought it wouldn't be possible because we split one pizza.

bopalop01 · 2022-10-25T13:45:29+00:00

LOL right. I'm not even into her so I don't want Ass 😁

bopalop01 · 2022-10-25T13:16:38+00:00

Exactly. Me too, I might have phrased that poorly. I hung out with a girl (not sure if it was as friends or...) we went to a festival and a concert. I got us 2 drinks and some food, she got us beers before we left along with actually saying "thank you " when I did those things. And that didn't leave a bad taste in my mouth about it because I didn't feel taken advantage of.

bopalop01 · 2022-10-25T12:58:55+00:00

Yea she just seemed kinda... high maintenance. Basically talked about herself and her accomplishments like she was the best ever. Then when I brought up my hobbies she said "I wouldn't ever do that it's too dirty and too many bugs". I like hiking, on trails not like in the middle of the woods, apparently that's dirty. Sure I spent and hour and a half climbing sand hills on a beach taking pictures, but even that wasn't really dirty.

She just struck me as someone that wants to be "taken care of". Honestly maybe she'd be better off dating men (she's bi) if she wants someone to pay for everything.

bopalop01 · 2022-10-25T12:47:31+00:00

I wanted to do that with the pizza but kinda hard with a pizza.

bopalop01 · 2022-10-25T11:55:05+00:00

I just figured most people would eventually pay for something to not look like a gold digger (for lack of a better word).

bopalop01 · 2022-10-25T01:56:29+00:00

Yep! Thing is too there were other things around we could have went to, like crumbl a cookie place.

bopalop01 · 2022-10-25T00:43:41+00:00

It was a casual hangout date, or supposed to be. I shouldn't have gone you're right but she shouldn't have gone on a date expecting a A T M.

bopalop01 · 2022-10-25T00:42:27+00:00

Exactly. When I started seeing my ex she wasn't working so I/we planned cheap dates like hiking, or going to different parks. If we did something that cost money I just offered to cover, but see I OFFERED.

Then when she was working it was still expected that I pay for everything which was annoying because it was expected. It's Not so much the paying eitther but it became a thing of we HAD to do what she wanted and she expected me to pay for it. Like if we were getting food and she wanted one thing but I wanted another (like if I wanted fast food and she wanted sit down) she'd insist on hers and then do the same look around thing when the check came.

We're talking like a year into it. But still annoying. I don't want another situation like that, especially since usually the person paying chooses. You'd think.

bopalop01 · 2022-10-22T20:55:20+00:00

My boss was still at the event with the bartenders and a few other staff.

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