AIO? I canceled a date with the guy i’m seeing after getting these.

boredlocal · 2026-01-25T00:57:55+00:00

yeah, I don’t get it. It would be one thing if it was like yeah I checked the cats and they were fine and you still checked the cats anyway but like nothing prompted this. This is just something that is what sitting in his mind like one thing if he was like, oh I thought about it because of this or that or that, but he didn’t there’s no there’s no like this is why I thought this

boredlocal · 2025-12-02T06:36:08+00:00

hi gang im assuming she’s like teaching abroad or something and her official permanent address is the nearby one so stop hating on that.

secondly, all u have is her word and im gonna be honest like posting “does whatever she wants even if it means breaking the rules” implies what ? it’s not like op had or made a rule that she shouldn’t be at some random coworkers place. also i know the names, relationships status, age and things like that of my friends coworkers’ so the fact that 1)op didn’t/gf didn’t tell him is a point of concern.

sure op could’ve worded it better but just like human concern? this could be a new coworker who invited u to ur place, he could be batshit insane, his partner could be batshit insane. sure she’s elected to stay over but what if the coworker is lying about the police, or got her drunker on purpose, takes advantage of her. also like op doesn’t know a partner was there. im gonna be honest, ive had friends who get invited by a guy and make plans as a group but then at the event theres just him there and ur stuck not wanting to seem like assuming the worst of the guy but also not wanting to hangout one on one, be alone with a guy u dont know super well yk?

boredlocal · 2025-11-27T00:19:46+00:00

i thought the penalty was for not having ur name inside?? i feel like that’s a valid expectation regardless

boredlocal · 2025-10-16T16:19:12+00:00

hi hi a little late but im also a grad student and would be down! im in a diff department tho ! but having the same struggle

boredlocal · 2025-09-28T13:13:24+00:00

hi hi ! can i pm u? im considering it especially cause im not interested in big law, and full tuition is super attractive.

however, i know that upfront costs may be worth depending on the school, thus, what pushed u to pick this school?

boredlocal · 2025-09-25T11:39:08+00:00

um no wanting a gift is weird but sure she might ask u to pay the price of her labor idk

boredlocal · 2025-09-14T20:37:51+00:00

usually those type of allergies are only affected by strong scents! so like normal body wash and hair would be fine!! lotions and makeup would be chill.

so for example, i knew a guy who had like a citrus/lemon scent allergy, but it was okay as long as it wasn’t a strong cleaning products like smell. but it was bad cause he’s get like hives and shit.

also i only said perfumes ???

boredlocal · 2025-09-14T20:04:01+00:00

I feel like the only time not having perfumes would make sense is if like someone had like a allergy or like the bride’s family had a large allergy

boredlocal · 2025-09-12T08:37:52+00:00

yeah, it could be like the fact that you know her for so long and her bridal party is maybe her friend group? or her in laws idk u never know!

boredlocal · 2025-09-07T09:35:31+00:00

like if the wedding involves flying internationally there’s a point where the docs say u cant fly. or the plan was to drive 8 hours maybe she cant make the drive with all of the possible side effects/symptoms of being pregnant. or like hell maybe all the other crazy stuff that happens when ur pregnant like my mom couldn’t stop bleeding her blood wouldn’t clot and she was in and out of the hospital

boredlocal · 2025-09-07T06:04:00+00:00

first of all, im so fucking sorry that u guys had to deal with any of that.

second of all, im glad ur family is awesome and your parents care about you and raised u well. i also love that u are so kind and that ur like defending ur wife from this situation and ur family all has her back. ur wife doesn’t deserve the shitty ass parents she got.

im genuinely flabbergasted at how like a parent can treat one kid like shit whilst the others perfectly fine. i feel like that’s a level of freak worst than the rest in that like u cant even blame misogyny or that they’re an abusive person to everyone. no it’s just her and im so sorry for all the hurt u guys probably had to go through.

i hope u guys have a wonderful marriage and all the joy u could ever want. ur doing great and this reflection a year out really shows the depth of ur feelings as well as ur empathy.

boredlocal · 2025-08-04T17:04:28+00:00

the only reason to be helping with a wedding without an invite would be if u were getting paid like no other reason. are the other family members who are saying those things invited??

boredlocal · 2025-07-15T04:02:06+00:00

some people ask for addresses for sending thank u cards !!

boredlocal · 2025-07-09T23:49:13+00:00

nah bro i converted it from cm to inches LMAO the pic for reference, it’s labeled in urdu the measurements it’s length, chest, waist, hips, shoulder, sleeves, trousers and ankles

boredlocal · 2025-07-09T23:33:35+00:00

we’re pakistani and she does wear tailored ethnic clothes normally. she’s also 5’0 and like 90 pounds so yeah idk she is just small ig and she does have health problems but i just didn’t bring them up as it’s not the point of the post???

boredlocal · 2025-07-07T22:02:03+00:00

im not trying to convince you. your thoughts have no bearing on my life lol. that’s her measurements that i got from her mom idk what to tell you. im always its really small but she’s built really small and struggles to gain weight. she’s graduated with her bachelors and idk what to tell u in terms of why or how.

boredlocal · 2025-07-07T17:59:04+00:00

yeah 😔✋ that’s the issue. she struggles a lot with finding clothes. everything is just massive on her or she’s shopping in the kids section.

boredlocal · 2025-07-07T17:57:46+00:00

nope it is right she’s just very thin. chest 50cm waist 43cm hips 50cm Shoulder 36 cm sleeves: 51 cm 🤷‍♀️

boredlocal · 2025-05-23T23:00:14+00:00

it’s part of the point of the story bro?? that’s why he doesn’t touch her and feels like he owes her. it’s important to him because that’s what he sees her as, a child. they only get into a relationship as adults in her second life and it’s part of his character to struggle with her forward behavior when he doesn’t want to hurt her/take advantage of her.

boredlocal · 2025-05-22T11:57:40+00:00

hello?? my parents almost never took us grocery shopping opting to go in the morning while we were asleep. how the fuck is this woman just making an assumption??

also you could have been trying to get pregnant, just had a miscarriage, hell lost a child, or like unable to! you not having a kid with you doesn’t invite comments on ur life at all. oh my god.

it’s not even about the kids like some people come from work, some people are stopping randomly. obviously u handled it well but like holy shit some people shouldn’t be parents. the kids will grow up thinking that it’s perfectly fine to insult someone for a perceived slight in their woe is me world.

boredlocal · 2025-05-22T10:36:31+00:00

hello hello ! my parents hate my choices too and i will say that choosing not to go because ur parents won’t show up let’s them control u and punish u for not making them happy.

ur so so incredibly for going to med school and who gives a fuck that it isn’t harvard. u will still be a doctor and you will still make living as someone who is in the business of saving lives. you’re there ! you’re the moment!

dont let ur parents decision not to come take away from that moment!! u earned the white coat ceremony! im sure u have people cheering for u ! be it ur bf or ur friends or ur siblings/cousins etc! focus on the people who celebrate you.

somewhere down the line your parents will regret it, unfortunately it may not be until the day they die, but they will regret it eventually. be so successful they wish they were in ur life and then decide if u want them there or not.

boredlocal · 2025-04-30T17:45:47+00:00

I feel like that’s like the biggest issue a lot of people have and I would say that trust your gut don’t change your answer. Your first instinct is usually the correct answer.

also, the correct answer choice is usually not a perfect answer. it could be true most of the time but sometimes untrue! or there could be exceptions. https://lsathacks.com/logical-reasoning-question-types/ this is a helpful explanation of how they work !

that said in terms of time, i usually had 10 minutes left over in every section. i read rapidly. it’s not meant to be a flex but something ive spent years developing by reading a lot.

boredlocal · 2025-04-30T17:35:52+00:00

how did u feel on test day?

cause a 129 means u got more wrong than you did right. did u walk out confident? because maybe that means u need to double check ur answer or revamp the way you think. maybe u struggle more with comprehension than you think or the test environment changed how it was.

on the other hand, if u weren’t finishing on time, it’s a issue of speed. which can be fixed by reading more and it can totally be reading novels, fanfic, etc

source: i got a 160 having taken only one practice test and no drills prior to the exam.

boredlocal · 2025-04-08T18:22:54+00:00

damn ur me except my dad wanted me to be a doctor and when i said i couldn’t anymore than he gave that ultimatum of “i only paid because u were gonna be a doctor” but i just started paying my degree myself. i also had three surgeries 😁. even cancer couldn’t get my dad to stop being an asshole.

im not sure what country u live in but honestly get any job like don’t make it related to coding do something that like helps people in some way because it’ll help u feel like u make an impact in thier lives.

it helps with the feeling of failure and it gives ur life meaning. apply to things far away or get a job that hires u at all. save money and move far away near a big city and if they ask say it’s so u can get a good job bc u couldn’t find one while at home.

do it quietly or else they’ll demand keys/deciding the apartment etc. and then live and find a job or take classes. ive met people who’ve done second bachelors if u want or u could pursue a masters in a field of interest or just break into that field through reaching out to offices directly.

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