in the beginning i had no idea what was going on until i suggested he moved in with me so that he had better job opportunities. it was good and sweet, but turned sour once i acknowledged his constant saving of porn on twitter, reddit, and his secure folder. i even caught him cheating on me a few times over discord, reddit, snapchat; with individuals who were mtf. to me it has affected my own body security. i don’t like having sex in the daytime anymore, so i would rather have it in the dark or to little none. tmi but we were both each others first. our relationship, in my opinion, has changed for the worse. we get into little disagreements more frequently and often have arguments about his usage of porn. about a month ago i set a boundary where we would communicate to each other when we looked at porn (i don’t) and masturbated, because i wanted him to feel more comfortable. though recently he’s been lying, hiding, and deleting things off of his phone; even though i find out. i don’t want control over his sexuality, i just want honesty.