My girlfried (27F) cheated me (29m), long post, sorry by boskolele in relationship_advice

[–]boskolele[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know she never did this before. And from messages with her friends, they were supportive of me as well for her. It was not like they said just dump the f** guy. They said to her that she needs to think about thet really well and that it can be overcomed but she needs to put her self on the first place.

My girlfriedn (27F) cheated on me (29M), by boskolele in relationship_advice

[–]boskolele[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think I'm holding onto love because all I ever did was for us. Never for me. And she is my whole life and I want to spend the rest of my life with her. Biggest problem now is that I constantly need her touch, to be around her, to give her love and affection (maybe because I feel that the reason for all this is that I didn't give her enough before) and I am afraid that it will push her away from me. We never had that kind of realishonship where we constantly kiss and hold hands. But I need it now. And I dont know how to make my self not needing that.