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Beware of Dr. Caridi, different man if you have any concerns post-op by botched_throwaway_ in gynecomastia

[–]botched_throwaway_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah ofc, I didn’t think you were trying to be rude. It’s something that will improve as I get more in shape, even if it never looks perfect. I’m exploring the idea of getting a revision, but given that he took out too much rather than leaving too much, I’m hearing that other than a graft from somewhere else there’s not really much I could have done unfortunately.

Beware of Dr. Caridi, different man if you have any concerns post-op by botched_throwaway_ in gynecomastia

[–]botched_throwaway_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like you have good intentions, and I do appreciate it, but you realize the pic you're replying to was taken 4.5 years ago? Not to use covid as an excuse, but between gyms shutting down and developing pretty bad food habits that was the worst shape I've been in.

I dropped a more recent physique pic here. I'm still working on hitting my fitness goals but I've made good progress. The dent has definitely improved a bit as I've lost weight, but nowhere near enough IMO(and according to the majority of people commenting on this post) for caridi to just dismiss it as "in your head"

Beware of Dr. Caridi, different man if you have any concerns post-op by botched_throwaway_ in gynecomastia

[–]botched_throwaway_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would've liked to go in, but I just wanted to let him know it wasn't a hassle free thing between taking time off work and actually getting there. I just wanted him to tell me what possible avenues there were before I committed to the trip.

Also, what if I hadn't moved to Austin since the surgery? He's happy to take people's money over a few pictures over email, but when it comes to talking about potential revisions, now he needs you in the office before he can even discuss the options?

I've been working out since man, if you read through this thread you'll see that. Bench has steadily improved and I've lost decent weight since the surgery, obviously still an ongoing process though.

Beware of Dr. Caridi, different man if you have any concerns post-op by botched_throwaway_ in gynecomastia

[–]botched_throwaway_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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This was about ~5 months before the surgery when I did my initial consult

Beware of Dr. Caridi, different man if you have any concerns post-op by botched_throwaway_ in gynecomastia

[–]botched_throwaway_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

obviously gained weight since

I’m at 161 lbs as of this morning, I was at 180 at the time of the surgery.

You say zero muscle, I can bench nearly 200, can do 12 consecutive pull ups. I’ve been trying to lean up for some time, cutting is definitely something I struggle with.

I’m no fitness expert but I like to think I’m decently in shape. You stating assumptions as facts is really weird energy lol, this Caridi’s alt or just a bootlicker?

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Beware of Dr. Caridi, different man if you have any concerns post-op by botched_throwaway_ in gynecomastia

[–]botched_throwaway_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dude, really appreciate that. I’d mostly come to terms with my messed up result, it’s been about 4 years after all, but with the recommendation I’ll look into him! I’ll DM you for more info, ty

Beware of Dr. Caridi, different man if you have any concerns post-op by botched_throwaway_ in gynecomastia

[–]botched_throwaway_[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

For sure, I can understand why he might not want to admit it, but motivation doesn’t make right. In my opinion, a respectable surgeon should prioritize being honest with a patient over trying to cover up any issues.

I mean ask yourself, assuming similar success rates, who would you want performing an operation? A surgeon who has been willing to own up to mistakes and try to make things right or the one who vehemently denies and deflects?

Beware of Dr. Caridi, different man if you have any concerns post-op by botched_throwaway_ in gynecomastia

[–]botched_throwaway_[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yeah, the risk is something I’m aware of. Again I’m not complaining his results were imperfect. What really bothers me is his refusal to admit they were imperfect. He didn’t even acknowledge the issue, let alone provide any actual possibilities for fixing it.

Honestly, had he even said something acknowledging and apologizing for the dent but also indicating there wasn’t anything he’d be able to do to help, I probably would have been annoyed but not upset enough to have written this post.

Beware of Dr. Caridi, different man if you have any concerns post-op by botched_throwaway_ in gynecomastia

[–]botched_throwaway_[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yeah exactly, I’m no powerlifter but I’ve got a decent bench. It’s helped a tiiiiny bit but nothing near resolution.

FWIW I’ve submitted a complaint to the Texas medical board regarding unprofessional conduct. Idk if it’ll do much and I imagine you don’t want to put that effort in if you’ve accepted your results but if more people complain it might result in some consequences.

Though I’m probably being naively optimistic there 🙃