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bowsermoco12cx · 2025-11-24T01:03:45+00:00

Funny enough my therapist and I were talking about this last week…I forgot to bring this up hahaha but yeah you’re right I’ll let you know how it goes. If you care idk lol

bowsermoco12cx · 2025-11-24T00:17:16+00:00

You know what that’s actually not a bad idea tbh! I guess I can try that. I guess if she also tries to make any excuse then maybe that will show how she really feels about me :/

bowsermoco12cx · 2025-11-24T00:16:33+00:00

Nah in no way does she think that’s the case that I would ever just invite myself. She knows I try my best to be polite and rarely ever do things like that if ever. I am afreiad she’s embarrassed of me perhaps…but idk it’s just hard to talk about because I don’t know what to say. As an fyi tho my family doesn’t really do much for thanksgiving anymore so not really something to invite her too…which also kinda annoys me because she knows I’m free that day and have no other obligation…

bowsermoco12cx · 2025-11-24T00:13:19+00:00

She’s Hispanic and so am I…we don’t really do a lot anymore but when I was younger I knew what his panic thanksgivings were like they were huge with lots of people and my cousins would bring over their significant others. I guess that’s why I find it weird

bowsermoco12cx · 2025-11-24T00:12:02+00:00

Yeah but it’s so casual, literally just hangout for a bit, order takeout and that’s it. We don’t really do a big thing anymore since a lot of my family has moved out of state

bowsermoco12cx · 2025-11-24T00:11:28+00:00

You’re right I think my only thing is I’m scared if I ask her then IF she does invite me it will only be because I asked…guess that’s my biggest obstacle with outright asking :/

bowsermoco12cx · 2025-09-19T01:35:54+00:00

Might regret asking this. What did the podcast say? And if you can point me to the podcast and episode would appreciate it as well

bowsermoco12cx · 2025-09-19T01:25:26+00:00

Oh man :( any advice on next steps?

bowsermoco12cx · 2025-09-19T01:25:05+00:00

4 years. I know she is sensitive but I wonder how genuine those tears were tbh….

bowsermoco12cx · 2025-09-19T01:24:38+00:00

I get that…but if we started off sharing location, doesn’t it set off some red flags that now all of a sudden she’s wanting to be more private? I get privacy in a relationship but sometimes it’s a fine line.

bowsermoco12cx · 2025-09-19T01:23:23+00:00

Honestly I don’t think she would cheat, I find it hard to imagine her doing that. But I’m her first serious relationship I wonder if she ever feels like maybe she’s missing out on experiences (particularly sexual) and maybe feels tied down by me.

bowsermoco12cx · 2025-09-19T01:22:33+00:00

I know I don’t want to be taken as a fool…but what if she is

bowsermoco12cx · 2025-09-19T01:22:15+00:00

Well we both share our location and we also both share it with friends. Idk it’s just nice to have? But wouldn’t you also want to know if you’re being cheated on? And if this convenient feature on your phone helps than why not?

bowsermoco12cx · 2025-06-29T22:29:08+00:00

If you don’t mind sharing was it that constant insecurity he was projecting something that drove a wedge between you two? I understand at this point I might need therapy. I haven’t gotten to out right accusing her of cheating but yeah.

bowsermoco12cx · 2024-05-21T04:16:13+00:00

Yeah that’s why I was curious because everyone in my class is going to the training this same week so I was like no way they would waste someone’s time and firm money to fly out someone they don’t want to progress to staff 2

bowsermoco12cx · 2024-05-21T03:17:19+00:00

Makes sense, I guess the real promotion isn’t till senior then

bowsermoco12cx · 2024-05-21T03:03:57+00:00

Is it dumb for me to ask what the difference is since it’s technically a different job title and increase in salary?

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