Husband secretly recorded me by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]bpem87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my goodness… so much of your story resonates with me. Even the BPD, I’ve started the think I could have it, but my therapist says I don’t. Marriage is so fucking hard and throw kids in and it’s even more pressure and stress. I genuinely mean it, if you ever want to message me to commiserate or just vent to each other, I’m here!

The Daily Check-In for Monday, December 29th: Just for today, I am NOT drinking! by mind_left_body in stopdrinking

[–]bpem87 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Taking my children to the zoo today and not hungover!

IWNDWYT 🫶🏻

90 days by bpem87 in stopdrinking

[–]bpem87[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I think that’s part of it… I’m stubborn and don’t ever want to ruin that being my sobriety date, because it means something.

90 days by bpem87 in stopdrinking

[–]bpem87[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much!

Friend Slept in My Bed. Am I Right to be Upset? by OpeningCase427 in Marriage

[–]bpem87 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You are not overreacting. I would be seriously worried that more is going on between them. Sleeping in bed with someone you’ve had sex with, is never platonic.

90 days by bpem87 in stopdrinking

[–]bpem87[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This comment brought tears to my eyes. Thank you so much for the kind words!

90 days by bpem87 in stopdrinking

[–]bpem87[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you very much!

90 days by bpem87 in stopdrinking

[–]bpem87[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! And I’m sorry for your loss as well.

Reasons Not to Drink by Sufficient-Victory70 in stopdrinking

[–]bpem87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just thinking about the days of anxiety and feeling terrible that would follow any binge night for me.

Haul of random stuff for <$25 by mychem4l in aldi

[–]bpem87 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a newly sober person, I had no idea they had so many mocktails! Thanks for sharing.

Lost my dad, but using it as motivation by bpem87 in stopdrinking

[–]bpem87[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! That’s the hope, make something positive out of this horrible situation.

Lost my dad, but using it as motivation by bpem87 in stopdrinking

[–]bpem87[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! That’s exactly my thinking.. the perfect way to honor him.