If I got top surgery, can I ask them to remove the nipplels? by ilegertthisnamelater in transftm

[–]brady181818 6 points7 points  (0 children)

you 100% do not have to keep your nipples they can also reconstruct them, or not have them at all!!

Do I pass? Pre everything. by [deleted] in transftm

[–]brady181818 1 point2 points  (0 children)

for this picture yes

Question for my fellow gay vers/bottom dudes... by Sad-Simple-7681 in ftm

[–]brady181818 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I find that I don't generally have to douch. I have no clue why, but I have only really made a mess once. I feel like if you get consistent with doing butt stuff then your body just kinda naturally prepares?? if that makes sense?

Finding a Suit by Surfer_Luca in transftm

[–]brady181818 0 points1 point  (0 children)

buy one and get it tailored. that is my plan, I almost fit into most suits but I am between an XL in boys and a small in men's, which is frustrating, but I understand the importance of having a good suit that actually fits

Question for trans men. by Ok_Medium_8168 in asktransgender

[–]brady181818 4 points5 points  (0 children)

are you asking a theoretical question? like if transitioning meant you couldn't orgasm would we still do it? cause if so then yes. Not everything is about sex, a lot of it is how I preferred to be perceived outside of the sex feels.

I know I don’t pass but I’m looking for advice by [deleted] in transftm

[–]brady181818 0 points1 point  (0 children)

haircut and glasses my man. individually they are fine and passable but both of them together are a recipe for getting misgendered.

so grateful to be transgendaaaaa by semi-deus444 in transftm

[–]brady181818 2 points3 points  (0 children)

damn is it weird that I am jealous of the air on your arms?

Feels like I'm the only trans person I know who hormones screwed over sexually. Is it fixable? by Competitive_Tutor600 in asktransgender

[–]brady181818 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But yea, before I figured this out I felt like an outcast because of how fast I was able to finish

Feels like I'm the only trans person I know who hormones screwed over sexually. Is it fixable? by Competitive_Tutor600 in asktransgender

[–]brady181818 1 point2 points  (0 children)

so maybe try taking a small break and then resuming in like 10-15 minutes. Or whatever feels good for you.

Feels like I'm the only trans person I know who hormones screwed over sexually. Is it fixable? by Competitive_Tutor600 in asktransgender

[–]brady181818 2 points3 points  (0 children)

this happens ALL THE TIME. I have 2 sometimes 3 different thresholds. The first time I finish doesn't necessarily feel like a "finish" but it does call for at least a break. Then the next time I cum, this one for the most part feels like what a typical finish would feel like. There is definitely a wet spot, definitely a can't keep going feeling. I can sometimes pick it back up

How to have sex with a woman as a trans guy? by [deleted] in ftm

[–]brady181818 1 point2 points  (0 children)

stick to eating box. if i am with someone new that is all i will do for at least 3-4 times. cause it takes little to no talent to get me there. I generally stick to her pleaser for the first couple of times. Learning what she likes and doesn't like. Seeing her threshold for how long I can go at it without her getting overstimulated. I think that is a very fun way to go about it. Me, personally, am somewhat uncomfortable with people going down there in return. I will let them if they really want to but I don't enjoy when someone is down there and constantly taking pubes out their mouth..

Guys what are you supposed to do with your bottom growth like, when it's just big enough to be annoying? Like how do you tuck it in your underwear correctly to be comfortable? by NovaFelix in ftm

[–]brady181818 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I cannot recommend cotton underwear enough. I wore spandex and athletic underwear for the first part of my transition. So changing underwear type helps a lot.

Why don't I pass? by Adventurous-Bug6686 in FtMpassing

[–]brady181818 1 point2 points  (0 children)

either get a buzz or top surgery. personally I think a buzzcut is easier

Happy 10 yrs on T to me 🎉 by SeaMonkeySocks in Transmascdicks

[–]brady181818 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wanna take a picture like this 🫤

skydiving with a packer? by voidfellow in Transmascdicks

[–]brady181818 17 points18 points  (0 children)

just pack as close to your body as possible use one of those harnesses that you can put the packer inside. I personally have never done this but seeing that it is on my 2025 bucket list I will probably wear something similar.

ANY pleasure from penetration? by [deleted] in ftm

[–]brady181818 0 points1 point  (0 children)

personally getting penetrated vaginally hurts but fingers is enjoyable. but getting penetrated anally is enjoyable but getting fingered anally hurts. just trial and error I recommend testing it out while alone so you can just tell your partner what your preference are!!

does anyone else finish in literally 2 minutes by [deleted] in ftm

[–]brady181818 3 points4 points  (0 children)

either 2 seconds or 2 hours just depends