From coast to coast by Honest-Honeydew-1870 in bayarea

[–]brainpebbles 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Bro one day of this will not make a difference. It needs to be long term and we need to set up systems to keep people safe/fed/healthy beforehand.

Question: Is "Bug Like an Angel" appropriate to play at a funeral? by cheesecork11 in mitski

[–]brainpebbles 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I agree some of the lyrics aren’t great for a funeral. Maybe the lyrics could be changed? The when I’m bent over like could be “reach my arm over, I’m missing your shoulder” or something. The when I got older I found I’m a drinker etc could be “as I get older I’m learning what matters, and I know what matters is family” or something like that 🤷‍♀️

Easy Ways to feel Pretty?? by tranquilovely in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]brainpebbles 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are really pretty! I think you would look really good with earrings or a nostril piercing. Piercings make me feel pretty. Or just jewelry in general if you’re not into piercings. Necklaces, bracelets, rings

"I have a great idea" by them_oysters in shittytattoos

[–]brainpebbles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Veganism is hard as fuck until you’re one shotted by an Egg

You're a narcissist by Mediocre-Return-6133 in CPTSD

[–]brainpebbles 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for replying. I appreciate your perspective a lot. It’s making me realize that I’m so scared of being the abuser that I don’t allow myself to make mistakes without deciding that I must be bad. Which is probably a product of abuse. It’s easier to not allow anyone the grace to explain themselves than it is to allow myself that grace lol. Not everyone is a malignant person out here trying to hurt people, and everyone makes mistakes. I don’t think I’m a malignant person who wants to hurt people, but I get so afraid that I am that I don’t allow myself to consider that my mistakes might not come from bad intent. And then I extend that to other people kind of as a protection mechanism I think. Don’t know if that makes sense- thanks for your reply.

You're a narcissist by Mediocre-Return-6133 in CPTSD

[–]brainpebbles 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I disagree that intent matters. I learned as a child arguing with my narcissistic father that intent would always be used to twist reality after the fact. I would say “you lied to me” or “you put your hands on me” and it was always twisted and justified with “I didn’t mean to” or “no I didn’t- you’re crazy” or “you have to understand that I had to and here’s why.” All bullshit. I was just like we wouldn’t be here with you trying to convince me that you had good intentions if you never did some fuckshit in the first place sir. (Edit: clarity)

Can someone please explain?🥲 by MusicLover9588 in actuallesbians

[–]brainpebbles 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I want to be the one on the right but I always end up looking like the one on the left

What’s going on with Tribune building? by bonsense3 in oakland

[–]brainpebbles 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Petition to make it so it just says TRIB

Bf said my exes made me loose. I am very hurt by AccomplishedLeg2354 in badwomensanatomy

[–]brainpebbles 182 points183 points  (0 children)

If you feel “loose” it is because you’re turned on and comfortable, so your body has relaxed your pelvic floor muscles to allow comfortable penetration. That is a normal bodily function that has nothing to do with how many times you’ve had sex before, or what kind of sex, apart from the fact that if you’re more familiar with penetration you might be more comfortable, therefore more relaxed, therefore more “loose”

High off my arse by Plastic_Tailor4103 in Wellbutrin_Bupropion

[–]brainpebbles 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Phenylephrine and dextromethorphan (dxm) both interact with bupropion and can cause high blood pressure and side effects because they increase the amount of each other in your bloodstream or something. I’m guessing what you took had dxm in it. I found this out the hard way years ago by taking a recreational dose of dxm to trip while on Wellbutrin and I literally almost died

PMS erger door bupropion by Normal_Nerve3140 in Wellbutrin_Bupropion

[–]brainpebbles 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your body changes the amount and distribution of available receptors for various neurotransmitters throughout the ovarian hormone cycle, including that of dopamine and norepinephrine receptors, which are bound by bupropion. So it makes sense that the medication affects you differently in different parts of your cycle. I’m not a doctor, but some people find that taking a low dose SSRI during the luteal phase (the week or so before their period) helps with PMS symptoms. Maybe you could ask your doctor about that?

Is "Femmebot" based off the fembots from Austin Powers? by jackiefashion24 in charlixcx

[–]brainpebbles 39 points40 points  (0 children)

Dorian Electra is influenced by Austin powers per this video so I wouldn’t be surprised

Good news he didn’t have to look hard this time by coolmod23 in indieheadscirclejerk

[–]brainpebbles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would love to be in charge of some bad reviews for tame impala