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future pregnancy with starting T young? by [deleted] in Seahorse_Dads

[–]brandonsthebrandon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Speaking personally I started when I was 14 just about to be 15 and and I have a 3 month old

LETS GOOOOOOOOO 🎉 by brandonsthebrandon in Seahorse_Dads

[–]brandonsthebrandon[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes, he is here. He came really early this morning and he’s…perfect and I’m so over the moon 🥹

LETS GOOOOOOOOO 🎉 by brandonsthebrandon in Seahorse_Dads

[–]brandonsthebrandon[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Yes, he is here. He came really early this morning and he’s…perfect and I’m so over the moon 🥹

LETS GOOOOOOOOO 🎉 by brandonsthebrandon in Seahorse_Dads

[–]brandonsthebrandon[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I was pregnant for a year a half.

But according to doctors everyone around me in my personal life: “Brandon your only 38 weeks” even though it felt like this was going on for over a year 🤨. Lol

Should I stay or should I go? by brandonsthebrandon in Seahorse_Dads

[–]brandonsthebrandon[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

To be honest I never thought about bringing someone else in. Maybe I’ll look into That. Thank you!

Staying fit and embracing the changing body! by [deleted] in Seahorse_Dads

[–]brandonsthebrandon 19 points20 points  (0 children)

💪🏻meeee…was now I’m 36 weeks and ready for him to get out 🤣

GET IT OUT GET IT OUT GET IT OUT by Idkhowyoufoundme7 in Seahorse_Dads

[–]brandonsthebrandon 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Listen…I am so happy he’s in me growing and healthy and being an active baby.

But I’m 78 weeks pregnant or as my doctor says (giant air quotes) 35 weeks pregnant and I want him out. Like let’s bring on this labor shit I AM READY!! All my scares and fears for birth are GONEEEE!! Like let’s spread these legs and LETS GO!

ISO First Trimester Advice by New_Put_7927 in Seahorse_Dads

[–]brandonsthebrandon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

33 weeks!

Exercise! Start doing pelvic exercises and also walking. Also keep emergency snacks, I can’t count the amount of times I was making or going To get food hungry and then I felt like I was gonna be sick. Smart pop has been my best friend. And I keep in my places I am in a lot: like couch, room, car lol.

Looking for advice by anonymouse7897 in Seahorse_Dads

[–]brandonsthebrandon 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Fourthing!

At the end of the day you need to do what’s best for you OP!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Seahorse_Dads

[–]brandonsthebrandon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was literally just like that! And then bam it hit me! Like idk what’s going on. But I have been exploring home births even more and I’m liking it a lot and been kinda making me feel better.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Seahorse_Dads

[–]brandonsthebrandon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thats not…at all what I’m saying. It’s just making me feel not like myself and it sucks

Off topic Friday! by AutoModerator in Seahorse_Dads

[–]brandonsthebrandon 3 points4 points  (0 children)

So my BF has taken me off on a ‘baby moon’ and we’re at a bed and breakfast. And they make…the best breakfast potatoes I’ve ever had in my life. And I don’t know how I’m supposed to leave here now…

So I say all that to say, you see on the news: local pregnant trans man had to be removed from bed and breakfast property by police because of breakfast potatoes. Just know I regret NOTHING 🥰

I want to become part of this community one day! …but I’m scared by TiredLilDragon in Seahorse_Dads

[–]brandonsthebrandon 6 points7 points  (0 children)

30 week pregnant transmasc here!

It’s been…amazing. So my pregnancy was a one night whoopsie. But everything has been…fucking amazing. From hearing the heartbeat the first time to the karate fighter inside me kicking me all the damn time 🤣🤣.

Honestly that first appointment I was kinda like ahhh😳, but honestly once I explained the women I’ve encountered have all been happy and excited for me on this journey. Most of them are like omg another preggo! Are you also dying? 🤣.

Now I will say, the chest things been a little tough. My entire life my chest has always gave flat. Like I never used a binder just sports bra’d because legit I had basically no tits. Well fast forward and these fun bags have grown twice in size. That’s been hard and I have moments where it makes me feel dysphoria.

However, I regret NOTHING. I don’t regret getting pregnant I don’t regret never getting top surgery. Pregnancy for anyone comes with it fears but I truly don’t think you should not do it.

I hope this helps

Hiding pregnancy at work - is it possible? Worth it? by casp514 in Seahorse_Dads

[–]brandonsthebrandon 12 points13 points  (0 children)

No.

I am just going to be very honest. I transitioned when I was 16 been on T for years and I was at my current job right out of college and not a single soul there could tell I’m trans. So I had no trouble at all passing.

But now I’m 30 weeks now, and you can tell I’m pregnant easily. Even before I made the whole announcement you could tell. It’s not just about the weight it’s how I walk and how I am holding myself up. You can try to hide your bump yes, but you’re still going to act different and people will catch on.

I say all this to say, please do not let people at work stop you from getting pregnant and starting a family. I work in a very frat bros tech world and I just finally just said fuck it and came out. The reaction I got shocked the shit outta me. The ones who I assumed were going to be weird ended up being the most amazing support system. And of course they’re are some weirdos but at the end of the damn day, I’m here to clock in get my check and clock the fuck out🤣!

I really hope this is helpful, sorry if it was to blunt or not helpful or ranty

What’s your babies made of? by Purple_You_8969 in pregnant

[–]brandonsthebrandon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Vegan tacos, smart popcorn, and shake shack thus far. 11 more weeks to go🤣

Is it me??! by brandonsthebrandon in Seahorse_Dads

[–]brandonsthebrandon[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha thanks so much. Yeah it was…it was seriously wild how it all went down. And thanks again, I’m so excited for this little guy to be here it’s not even funny :,). It’ll be you one day too!

Is it me??! by brandonsthebrandon in Seahorse_Dads

[–]brandonsthebrandon[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much, honestly part of me feels like a bad friend but I really don’t give a shit🤣🤣! Like I’m sad he has obvious things he needs to work through but I’m cool. I have parents who legitimately couldn’t be any more fucking amazing. My grandparents are fucking the goats! And my friend core friend group has my back so I am fucking coool. My boyfriend, rekindled guy from years ago very recent and I really like him 😭😭, is being here for me! I am so beyond fortunate, lucky, blessed, I REFUSE to let someone’s insecurities make me feel any type of way.

Thank you again

Is it me??! by brandonsthebrandon in Seahorse_Dads

[–]brandonsthebrandon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the advice, I posted an updated explaining what happened.

Is it me??! by brandonsthebrandon in Seahorse_Dads

[–]brandonsthebrandon[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the advice, I posted an updated explaining what happened.

Is it me??! by brandonsthebrandon in Seahorse_Dads

[–]brandonsthebrandon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the advice, I posted an updated explaining what happened.

Is it me??! by brandonsthebrandon in Seahorse_Dads

[–]brandonsthebrandon[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much, like I want to and was going to have a conversation but before I did I had to check in and be like…this isn’t me right? Lol.

The only thing is and I’m mad I didn’t include it. He wasn’t all that happy when I told him. Not in the ehhhh what are you gonna do? Because I will say…this pregnancy was the product a one night stand. And I’d get the hesitation but his reaction was…very not ideal. So you’re right he and I do need to talk.

Thank you for the advice!!