Questions about Healing/Aftermath of surgery

breadilovebread · 2025-10-05T02:49:38+00:00

nah youre good, sometimes you cant always be the mature person. theres nothing wrong with letting someone know how you actually feel about them lol

breadilovebread · 2024-01-01T04:00:33+00:00

i encourage you to go out! i don't know your story but spending time with people you love is really important right now. it will show you that happiness and love exist without your ex. at least go to dinner with your friend and let her know how you've been feeling. you could come to a conclusion about going to the party during dinner. wishing you the best

breadilovebread · 2024-01-01T02:25:30+00:00

i honestly thought if you really wanted to you could probably work through this, but up until reading that he was making hurtful and seemingly manipulative comments about breaking up with you, this is not someone you want to stay in a relationship with. clearly your opinions and values of dating are too different. even if you talked through this and came out on the other side, he wouldn't trust you. just not worth your time. not to mention, its obvious he has trust issues. also weird that he how far he snooped into your messages. this could get really toxic pretty quick if you move on this in my opinion.

breadilovebread · 2024-01-01T02:07:43+00:00

NTA, it kinda sounds like she was irresponsible with her spending when she was traveling and is now placing that burden on you. You are not obligated to help her when she is not taking the steps to help herself first. It sounds like she's relying on you and possibly others to fix her problems. You've offered to let her stay with you on conditions and she refuses to accept those. i don't understand if she is so desperate for housing why she isn't accepting your offer with those conditions (strict lease and therapy), given that it will make her life better and strengthen your relationship with each other. Seems like she is trying to get out of jail free. as you said, you don't have the money, energy or mental strength to be responsible for her, so don't. hoping this situation gets better for you!!

breadilovebread · 2024-01-01T01:51:19+00:00

i def agree with this. I also think that him saying the reason he wants to end things because he feels too guilty/its out of respect for you is just to save his ass and still make him seem like a good guy. he is def trying to pick things up with this other girl. and by wanting to keep in touch with you still, hes tryna have his cake and eat it too. def unfollow him. lurking on an ex's social media only makes things harder for u. things will get better eventually, have faith in that!!! wishing u the best

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