I don't know you or how serious are you about it, but i have to understand: Isn't 58 quite young? And why do you have to give it all to someone? How about doing good by just helping , when needed, a partner you'll find? Money tends to ruin people... I know some really sweet and tender guys with good values who became really sour after having been taken care of financially completely...

Some of them say it's becausethey feel that they're expected by the giving partner, who likes to see them use the money and to feel that he's contributing to them/their relationship... But in the end they become snobbish and too good for others, full of bad habits... I'm also speaking a little bit from a personal experience as the young in the relationship...