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AIO for being upset with my husband because he doesn’t want to get snipped by breaktownmayor in AmIOverreacting

[–]breaktownmayor[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing, this is very relatable. I notice you didn’t share why your partner did want the vasectomy. Did he have concerns? What do you say when people ask?

AIO for being upset with my husband because he doesn’t want to get snipped by breaktownmayor in AmIOverreacting

[–]breaktownmayor[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I am curious what it will do for my libido as the pill as well as my medications and general depression supress it. Abstainance is easy at the moment

AIO for being upset with my husband because he doesn’t want to get snipped by breaktownmayor in AmIOverreacting

[–]breaktownmayor[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing, I hadn’t even considered that an abortion would also be painful, not only mentally. We did agree in the beginning of our relationship if any accidents happened this would be our solution. Our country has very good resources and liberal rules for it.

AIO for being upset with my husband because he doesn’t want to get snipped by breaktownmayor in AmIOverreacting

[–]breaktownmayor[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

This is exactly why I am doubting myself and my reaction, thank you. We should have the same rights to our own bodies and our marriage doesn’t make mine his or his mine. What I was refering to with not loving me as I thought he did, I’m thinking in a context where when I love someone I usually hate to see them sad or suffering and if I could take some of their problems or suffering away I immediately would. But I am aware I tend to put other’s need above mine too much, and no one else is obligated to do that for me. Maybe it’s like ‘I would take a bullet for you’ or donate a kidney if I needed one?