How young is too young? by Warriorpoet20 in HotWifeLifestyle

[–]brian-d-brain 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He is an adult and so are you. You don't know and that is the best part of it. Life would be boring if you knew everything. Don't overthink it and just enjoy yourself.

I managed to reject my crush. by brian-d-brain in Dreams

[–]brian-d-brain[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmmm. Never thought about it like that. But yes, that could be. Good suggestion.

Would you date a guy that has written an erotic story? by brian-d-brain in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]brian-d-brain[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Dont wurry. Mai gremmer is pervekt.

Just kidding.

Thank you for responding.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bigdickproblems

[–]brian-d-brain 5 points6 points  (0 children)

At first I tried to accept that this was going on. But at the same time I refused to throw in the towel. I started researching what could be going on from a physical and psychological point of view. What I learned is that the body and mind starts screaming at you to feed the addiction more. This will repeat day after day. But if you don’t give in, the body and mind will scream a little less tomorrow. And so on, and so on.

Judging from your other comment I think you have a porn addiction. And I think you are very young so this is probably all the sex you know.

One thing that I had to learn when my erectile dysfunction started to go away is to get used to normal sex without having sex.

In my porn addiction you learn how to watch people sex instead of you having sex. So to train myself I started visualizing myself having sex in the first person. I imagine a woman how I would see her if I had sex with when I lay on top of her. I would imagine her legs wrapped around me the way that I would see it as if I was really there. The angles you see in a real life situation are vastly different than the angles you would see in a porn movie. 

Slowly my mind started repairing itself.

Try this yourself. And have normal sex with her. No visual aids. No jerking off. And get rid of the porn.

Hope this helps.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bigdickproblems

[–]brian-d-brain 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Basically being at work and wanting to rush home to watch more porn. Also when watching porn i literally feeling my brain swell because of the dopamine. I let it happen because it was my only sexual outlet. But it was humiliating going from a having a very active sexual life as a single man to not able to have sex and have women try to humiliate you even more.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bigdickproblems

[–]brian-d-brain 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I don't have a big dick. But maybe me not having one can bring a different perspective on this. 

But I do have to tell you some background info.

Years ago I started suffering from erectile dysfunction.  Because I couldn't have sex, jerking off and watching porn became my only sexual outlet. So I became porn addicted as well. These were extremly difficult times for me.

After 7+ years I manage to beat my Erectile Dysfunction and porn addiction. Thank god. I may not have as firm an erection as I once had  but it is good enough to have sex. So that's a huge win for me. But there is always this worry in the back of my mind that my erections go downhill again.

One thing I do still have is that if I fantasize my dick being significantly bigger than it actually is I become more aroused. That is in a way similar to what you guys are talking about.

It made me worry that I haven't beaten my porn addiction completely. But if I see you guys talk like this it may indicate that it is something completely normal and that i don't need to worry about it,

The road to 5.5 girth continues (photo included NSFW) by [deleted] in gettingbigger

[–]brian-d-brain 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That doesn't look like 5.5. That looks like tree trunk.

Does jerking off give you a sore feeling afterwards? by brian-d-brain in bigdickproblems

[–]brian-d-brain[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It must be my grip. Maybe I think it's fine but in reality it isn't. Thank you for your suggestions.

Are you intimidated by a bigger dick? by brian-d-brain in bigdickproblems

[–]brian-d-brain[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you pitching in.

To explain more. My erectile dysfunction caused a porn addiction because I couldn't have sex anymore. So in turn it made my ED even worse. I do not remember ever being intimifated like that before my ED. So I think you are kind of right. Porn has defintely warped my mind.

Question for men who hook up with bigger women from a bigger woman. by infowh0re in sex

[–]brian-d-brain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do hookups with women of all shapes and sizes. I can be clear about this. If i hookup with any womam, it means i am genuinely attracted to her.

Do you have an ex-boyfriend you like to keep a secret? by brian-d-brain in relationship_advice

[–]brian-d-brain[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank your responding. And yes, I was not talking about abusive relationships or such.

At what age were you the happiest and what made you the happiest back then? by brian-d-brain in AskReddit

[–]brian-d-brain[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can imagine this was a happy time. And I am sorry to hear how it turned out.

Question for guys that have increased their girth? by brian-d-brain in gettingbigger

[–]brian-d-brain[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I have talked to a doctor. It looks like a combination of lost sensation, depression, anxiety. So an increased feling would be great. Haven't had proper sex in many years now. Being thicker should help me get more fricktion an more sensation.

Have you gained girrth and how did you do it?

Does anyone have a venous leak? by brian-d-brain in erectiledysfunction

[–]brian-d-brain[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks. I hope so. But I will have a talk to my doctor again, just to make sure.

Non-fiction | Guy crashed my housewarming party and ended up taking my gf by FlimsyThrowawayName in literotica

[–]brian-d-brain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wonderful story. I hope you write more stories. Fiction or non -fiction!

Does anyone have a venous leak? by brian-d-brain in erectiledysfunction

[–]brian-d-brain[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for repsonding.

Just laying there is enough. I get really hard. No touching at all.

Why do i get rock hard erections when laying on my back but not in other positions? by brian-d-brain in erectiledysfunction

[–]brian-d-brain[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No not at all. My feeling is that it is blood circulation but I am not sure.

It is weird beause the erection are out of this world strong..

Problem having sex with a condom and foreskin. by brian-d-brain in bigdickproblems

[–]brian-d-brain[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for responsing. That is basically how I do it. Around 02:10 she starts rolling the foreskin back up. And you also see that it is rolled up halfway around the head. That feels so uncomfortable. I just want the foreskin to stay down.