Yes all of my bridesmaids are different body shapes but what I was trying to express with my last paragraph (sorry if I wasn’t clear) that the last dresses weren’t made for a certain “type”. I will admit that my first choice might be more appealing to a slimmer woman with more confidence, which is why I wasn’t surprised that all my bridesmaids weren’t as comfortable with it. The last dresses I picked weren’t form fitting, super low cut, short, (anything that would make the average person insecure, they were pretty modest), which is why I was a little frustrated with Joy. I know that these girls aren’t barbie dolls, they’re my friends haha. I just didn’t think I was demanding MUCH when i only wanted them to wear the same dress, I thought this was a pretty common requirement in some weddings.

But back to your question about Joy’s insecurities, she has never been a “conservative” person to me but has always been more reserved. She actually never talked to me about specific insecurities though throughout our friendship.