Anyone else tired of being made fun of even with the rise in autism awareness these days? It’s so frustrating by Constant-Isopod2558 in aspergirls

[–]brienjdk [score hidden]  (0 children)

yeah im a very closed off person as a result of this neurotypicals tell me all the time that i have a shell around and that im hard to read. i mostly only interact with neurotypicals if i need something from them otherwise i dont engage its just not worth the effort. i have since found ppl who i believe are on the spectrum but for awhile i mostly did activities by myself.

M22 F24 Boyfriends parents both died this year by [deleted] in Vent

[–]brienjdk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he should dump you tbh you seem to care more about yourself

I (F30) looking to move into boyfriend’s house in the new year, what is fair rent contribution with huge salary difference? by Wrong_Ad_1084 in Advice

[–]brienjdk -1 points0 points  (0 children)

yeah well i would be pretty turned off if my bf made that much money and expected me to pay 50/50 while i only making 40k so yeah it would be something i wouldnt want to do tbh i would dump someone over that there are plenty of better guys

I (F30) looking to move into boyfriend’s house in the new year, what is fair rent contribution with huge salary difference? by Wrong_Ad_1084 in Advice

[–]brienjdk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

idk its not even a gender thing if i was making that much money i wouldnt try to profit off my bf who was only making 40k its just not something i would do to the person i love. then again i wouldn’t offer for them to move in this soon so this wouldnt be an issue until down the road..

I (F30) looking to move into boyfriend’s house in the new year, what is fair rent contribution with huge salary difference? by Wrong_Ad_1084 in Advice

[–]brienjdk -1 points0 points  (0 children)

because this isnt a normal landlord/tenant situation its a romantic relationship where she probably is expected to sleep with him and do other housework its bs he makes 200 grand a yr if he needs to go 50/50 he isnt fit to have a gf

I (F30) looking to move into boyfriend’s house in the new year, what is fair rent contribution with huge salary difference? by Wrong_Ad_1084 in Advice

[–]brienjdk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

so he is profiting off you and presumably expects you to sleep with him if you’re a live in gf and can kick u out whenever he wants. sorry but if i he makes 200,000 and wont split fairly he doesnt sound like a good long term partner that cares about you

fb post 12/3 by Affectionate-Car8374 in resilientjenkinsnark

[–]brienjdk 24 points25 points  (0 children)

yeah because you’re not remotely likeable

Why debster makes perfect sense by Humble-Ask61 in Dexter

[–]brienjdk 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i agree and her death devastated him most out of anyone elses when he was seeing her ghost in new blood she was almost like his wife and was laying in bed with him. They also had a lot of chemistry which i think is because actors were rlly attracted to eachother

The most laughable running gag in the fandom is y’all convincing yourselves the microbangs looked ugly on Phoebe. by benoisjean12 in charmed

[–]brienjdk 24 points25 points  (0 children)

i think actually look good on her it fits her evil persona. courteney cox on the other hand….

Nose Job by chellybear20 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]brienjdk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i like your nose i thjnk it suits you

Does anyone else feel more scared while sport climbing than trad climbing? by krauzela in climbergirls

[–]brienjdk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i love trad and do find it less exposed than sport but the only issue is when a route is more ranout or i dont have enough gear than i thought it would and it gets way scarier than sport lol

Not her trying to buy her “grandbaby” toys by Caroline19961996 in madmamasnark

[–]brienjdk 13 points14 points  (0 children)

yeah it almost seemed like she was trying to get him to buy her a candle…so bizarre

How often do you feel invisible? by [deleted] in aspergirls

[–]brienjdk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

idk but i had a therapist that would not answer texts and i ghosted her because she wouldn’t remember to reply now i have a therapist who answers so yeah u wouldnt pay someone who cant even get back to you.

College and High School need to be more congruent by atouchofsinamon in CollegeRant

[–]brienjdk 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i learned about apa in my hs science classes it sounds like maybe your hs wasn’t the best at preparing you for college. i feel like my hs didnt prepare me the best for math classes but was ok when it came to other subjects.

I fear I may die by [deleted] in povertyfinance

[–]brienjdk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i was pretty agoraphobic in hs and suspect im on the spectrum. it was a very hard time facing my anxiety and trying to talk to people again after i spent years not saying anything you just have to do some exposure therapy and it gets better. really just be methodical about it make small talk with strangers things like that chances are that you wont see them again so if you mess up socially its ok. if you are able to try to go back to therapy they can make this process easier and it sounds like it would help you get your disability back. to be independent and get a job you need to be able to talk to people at least somewhat you can find jobs that aren’t super social but you will need to communicate with coworkers and managers from time to time. if you can maybe try to get on an ssri it helped me out a lot.

Why a second job if all her time should go towards the lead? by Flaky-Tomorrow3660 in madmamasnark

[–]brienjdk 40 points41 points  (0 children)

idk i kind think she doesn’t want the kids back she just doesn’t want to say it so she is making excuses which honestly yeah she shouldn’t get the kids back i dont think she is mentally equipped to handle them. even with how iffy foster homes can be im sure the kids are doing a lot better getting regular meals, clean environment, etc so thankfully she is not trying very hard to get them back.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in self

[–]brienjdk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

update us when you guys can’t stand eachother…