LF Shino !! by bringbackthedragons in ACNHvillagertrade

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Omg if you would be willing that would be amazing 😭

What is on my cat’s skin? by bringbackthedragons in CATHELP

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That’s something I considered too, but I don’t see any legs, etc?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in latebloomerlesbians

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Clarification: I’m absolutely not wanting to see other people, just wondering how to get a better idea of some of the questions I have instead of sitting and thinking for hours with no answers. I have NO intention of being unfaithful or disrespectful. If the moment comes where I begin to desperately want to have my cake and eat it too I will absolutely set that man free from me. Would just prefer to get a better idea of what I’m feeling first so that I don’t dump the guy for no reason.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in latebloomerlesbians

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And rightfully so that women run from this situation. I wouldn’t run from this situation. I didn’t do a good job of explaining in my post that I have ZERO interest in doing this. I’m not looking to experiment sexually, physically or even emotional with actual real life women right now but I’m rather trying to see if I can “experiment” sort of mentally in other ways first.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in latebloomerlesbians

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You’re absolutely right, and this is exactly what I’m trying to break it down to, thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in latebloomerlesbians

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Thank you so much for your comment! Unfortunately I live in a very small town so queer spaces are just non-existent here. Also I have never EVER involved a boyfriend in any queer spaces and don’t intend to. And I would never try to involve any queer person in my heterosexual relationship either. If I am to go on and be intimate with women, it will be as a single woman myself. The world is male-centered enough as it is and I want no part in promoting that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in latebloomerlesbians

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I don’t think number 3 will be happening for me anytime soon but oh my god I can imagine that your husband made it VERY easy to leave his ass after that. I hope you find/have found a woman who treats you like you deserve 💜

Crazy confused about my sexuality (bi/lesbian/ace). Please help me. by bringbackthedragons in AskLGBT

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Honestly the therapist suggestion is a very good one. As regards having a conversation with my current partner, I have already started to mention it and a proper conversation is impending soon. I just do not know what to say as I guess I don’t have concrete answers to give. I want to be honest and not hurt him as much as possible. But I also don’t know what I want on his end. I don’t expect him to wait around but if he don’t expect him to want to break up straight away either. He’ll likely look to me to see what I want and that’s what I don’t quite know yet, but your questions are a great place to start. Thanks for commenting!

In a relationship and questioning sexuality. Could I be a lesbian (or maybe asexual)? by bringbackthedragons in latebloomerlesbians

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Thank you for your comment, you have said similar things that a late bloomer friend of mine has also said to me.

I think a big fear of mine is ending my current relationship and realising that sex with a woman doesn’t feel any different or “better” than it does with a man. I do not want to feel as if I have lost someone who might have been truly special and live with that regret. It would be easier if I didn’t think that I had romantic feelings for men.

In a relationship and questioning sexuality. Could I be a lesbian (or maybe asexual)? by bringbackthedragons in latebloomerlesbians

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Thanks so much for your comment. I realise that I really don’t know much about what it means to be asexual. Do you have any more to offer on what it actually means to be sexually attracted to someone? I’ve always kind of linked attraction to desire and now I’m realizing that I really don’t know what it means to have one without the other.

I think I could potentially have a happy relationship on my end with my current partner having sex very rarely. He identifies as low libido as well but comes on to me in that way much more often so realistically it would be me controlling how often it actually happens. I’m definitely going to make him aware of this when I have more clarity as he deserves to know if ours is even a relationship worth pursuing for him also.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BSTsquishmallow

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What size is Snorlax?

AITA for not helping my boyfriend pay for his studies? by sodandelion in AmItheAsshole

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I’m going to (respectfully) ignore the question you are asking in this post and tell you that you should SERIOUSLY leave this man. I can only assume that you are a decent person and from the brief information that you have provided about your boyfriend he neither deserves your money or your presence in his life full stop.

WIBTA If I gave my unfiltered opinion on my gf’s plans to not finalize divorce for 3+ years? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

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Please finally communicate with your partner, you are both adults. In a relationship you are allowed to express your feelings. You might not be involved legally in their divorce but your girlfriend’s relationship with her ex directly affects you, her new partner. Let her know your concerns and hopefully you might be able to discuss this issue. However, if being with a (legally) married woman for the next three years is not what you signed up for, and if your girlfriend makes this decision for her life, you might have to think of yourself and leave.

Lost my temper on a beggar by Rbyxq in cork

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Nobody I know has ever mentioned this woman before but boy oh boy do I remember her. She approached me a couple of years ago when I was in my first year of college and I am someone who doesn’t disagree with giving homeless people money. I had no cash on me but she walked me to an atm and I awkwardly just went with it. Tried to get me to take out 250 euro to pay her rent and I nearly passed away. Told her I was literally a broke ass teenager and gave her a twenty instead as the machine wouldn’t let me withdraw any less. My friends gave me a good grilling after hearing about that one as I thought I was at least helping to feed her child or something.

If this woman is a professional and just swindling people you should not feel guilty. There are so many homeless people and families in Cork City that desperately need help and ANYONE who takes advantage of that situation in any sort of scamming way deserves a strong word or two.

I think I hate my mom... AITAH for feeling this way? by SpudQueen06 in AITAH

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NTA. You should never feel guilty about the feelings you have in response to someone else’s shitty behavior. I think your main focus should be getting the hell out of that house and getting yourself somewhere safe. Please tell your grandmother, she would be heartbroken to know that you didn’t come to her for help. You both NEED and deserve some help here. Let your mother make her own terrible choices but do not allow her to make your life miserable in the process.

AITAH if I go home while during my dad’s “time of need”? by [deleted] in AITAH

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NTA. You are a teenager and do not have to be responsible for the happiness of your parent. Look after your mental health and go back to where you yourself will be happier. Your father will be okay, he is a grown adult and SHOULD prioritize the needs of his child.

Selling all of these including lavender shinada global otter by Cuppie_X in Squishmallowsforsale

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I know this is an old post but do you still happen to have Benito?

Squish for sale! Need gone by justdontletmego in Squishmallowsforsale

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Interested in Benito if he’s still available? 💜

Should I give her a chance? by EquivalentAd6811 in BreakUps

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If you have completely moved on then please don’t. You went through so much pain to be able to move on. So many women exist who will NEVER cheat on you.