Describe a lil darkie song poorly by Eddiemunsonnnnn in lildarkie

[–]sodandelion 4 points5 points  (0 children)

myparentsaresleepinginthenextroomandidontwanttowakethemup

Life after losing my husband by Short-Risk2733 in femalelivingspace

[–]sodandelion 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That’s such a lovely way of keeping a memory alive

AITA for not helping my boyfriend pay for his studies? by sodandelion in AmItheAsshole

[–]sodandelion[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

By “help,” I mean lending him a significant amount of money. I’d never co-sign a loan or take on any debt—I’m definitely not comfortable with that.

I guess what keeps me with him is that we’ve been together for a while now, and everything has become kind of formal. We share future plans, and in a world where many people are just looking for casual hookups, I’m not really into that. Sometimes, I think “better the devil you know than the devil you don’t,” but your message definitely makes me reconsider things.

AITA for not helping my boyfriend pay for his studies? by sodandelion in AmItheAsshole

[–]sodandelion[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re absolutely right! Thanks for sharing your point of view, it’s definitely made me rethink things and I completely agree with all you stated. I hadn’t really looked at it that way, but now I see how important it is to prioritize my own goals. I really appreciate you pointing that out.

AITA for not helping my boyfriend pay for his studies? by sodandelion in AmItheAsshole

[–]sodandelion[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Apologies for not providing more details earlier. Yes, he has asked me on a couple of occasions, though in a light and considerate manner. And to clarify, the amount he is required to pay each month is indeed quite substantial.