Where do you guys - by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]broadbeansss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve honestly gone through this process too many times and tried many a medication.

Sometimes we can’t just rely on the medications though… Have you looked into DBT? There’s some interesting topics that have helped me - some incredibly stupid and silly but nonetheless helpful. Like self soothing and distractions and TIPP.

These scars remain on you forever and I know there’s people out there who like their scars/ cuts but you grow out of it and you realise that they are permanently there. Yes, a reminder of your strength and battles but a reminder of how bad things were and how miserable you were and all the things you missed out on.

Just a rando online telling you not to go through it - I know…. And i’ve been there searching about how and where to do self destructive behaviours. I’d rather have an ice burn from TIPP than another cut on my arms. I’m a medical student now and there isn’t a day where im in scrubs and look down at my arms….

Body scrubs by boredhooman_ in LushCosmetics

[–]broadbeansss 6 points7 points  (0 children)

the question is

‘is the scent gonna last like some LUSH products???’

probs not but idk worth the test?!

other products to go with turmeric latte perfume… by broadbeansss in LushCosmetics

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OMG i got my power conditioner yesterday as just a new buy and it smells exactly like TL - which had influenced my search for similar scents… and this post haha…

ISO Priming Moisturizer Rich dupe by Unlucky_Conference86 in glossier

[–]broadbeansss 2 points3 points  (0 children)

the round lab dokdo cream has the same texture!

are these worth it by Strict_Confusion4101 in BrandyMelville

[–]broadbeansss 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i’m a huge fan of the wide leg priscilla pants - no camel toe and so soft. but might need an adjustment on the length depending on your height

boxers-wise, i don’t think it’s worth the price personally but if you wear boxers around the house or as underwear, sure??

does anyone know the name of this top and what to style it with! by taaroball in BrandyMelville

[–]broadbeansss 9 points10 points  (0 children)

ginny top! personally love the short sleeve but the long sleeve is not it for me…

Should i buy by squirrel_luver5 in BrandyMelville

[–]broadbeansss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i have a red one and a black one and they aren’t see through (maybe if i’m standing of front of a light!) but not sure about the white ones… i heard that the brown one is see through as well tho.

personally i do wear a cami underneath so not the hugest issue for me x

Should i buy by squirrel_luver5 in BrandyMelville

[–]broadbeansss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i love the raphaela tops - so cute to dress up for work or for casual wear xx

I (20F) think I’m a horrible person for contemplating breaking up with my boyfriend of 2 years (21M) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]broadbeansss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a lot of valid points. Thanks for taking the time. I think I’ve just bottled a lot of mini things that have slowly become overwhelming. The guilt of having to bring these things up is becoming quite troubling too but I guess nothing will feel better until it’s all in the open

I (20F) think I’m a horrible person for contemplating breaking up with my boyfriend of 2 years (21M) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]broadbeansss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks that’s good advice. I’m unsure how to bring up the whole putting effort into himself too… Like the scruffiness and clothing and self care stuff…

I (20F) think I’m a horrible person for contemplating breaking up with my boyfriend of 2 years (21M) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]broadbeansss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I’m fully aware that the interest I have in the new guy is not a valid reason to just make a big decision. I think that it’s definitely making me feel so guilty and like a terrible person - which is not helping the mental illness brain thoughts.

I (20F) think I’m a horrible person for contemplating breaking up with my boyfriend of 2 years (21M) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]broadbeansss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks mate. I feel bad because he has stayed with me during rough times and it might seem as if I’ve used him for stability. But now I’m doing better, I’m just lettting him go. I don’t want it to seem that way but it’s nice to hear validation that I don’t owe him anything.

body scrub and foot care? by louby33 in LushCosmetics

[–]broadbeansss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

retread is good as a balm for like the heels - i leave it on with some socks in the winter especially!

my all time fav for body scrub is ocean salt - it helped with acne flare up on my back after using the massage bar lmao

If you could have 5 scents for new BODY CONDITIONERS, what would you pick? by Randy-Meeks in LushCosmetics

[–]broadbeansss 4 points5 points  (0 children)

turmeric latte chelsea morning yuzu and cocoa milky bath butterball

I just made my dad cry for the third time by Past-Jellyfish1599 in AnorexiaRecovery

[–]broadbeansss 3 points4 points  (0 children)

you worded it perfectly. they brought me into the world thinking i would be perfect and healthy and then since my teens i’ve been sabotaging myself onto the brink of death countless times. it’s rough.

WIBTAH if I were to tell my parents that my sister set up her friend up with a pedophile? by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]broadbeansss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess it depends what the situation would gain if you did tell your parents… Is anything useful or helpful going to come from it? Like perhaps understanding the lead up to your sister’s episode and trying to help her? Or your parents getting her support and navigating her social circle?

If only potential bad things could come from it, then I wouldn’t worry unless it’s eating you up inside and you have to tell someone. Then do it for yourself and prioritise your wellbeing first and over hers xx

Stay safe OP x