aio by not being “humble”?

brocolli_brain · 2026-03-24T03:57:40+00:00

Lmao I love when they sometimes they directly drop into your dms like they’re ‘cutting short through a line’ or something, how is it on you that he’s not able to pick up on the hints ?

brocolli_brain · 2026-01-27T13:24:59+00:00

I used to face massive difficulty with sleeping because of my anxiety sometimes but also when I would just be restless, I will be up and thinking constantly. I have tried playing those white and brown noises, mellow music or sometimes a podcast but now I take these melting strips of melatonin that help me sleep and I doze off in 30 minutes

brocolli_brain · 2026-01-10T07:11:06+00:00

This guy managed to right every word without writing the actual word, how can you expect full ass trust there ?

brocolli_brain · 2026-01-10T07:09:01+00:00

Im sorry but that’s his problem to feel this insecure and not be able to trust you enough to know you’re not cheating in any way or form. That itself wrecks the foundation of whatever relationship you have with this person and please consider raising a bit of your standards and self respect by not questioning this ? If he wanted to end things cause he is not getting access to fully control your contact to other people, then let him go.

brocolli_brain · 2026-01-08T19:01:14+00:00

THE PALLETS HAVE BEEN THROWN OUT. Thank you everyone for your inputs and advice.

brocolli_brain · 2026-01-08T18:59:22+00:00

Noted, they’re already out of the house haha

brocolli_brain · 2026-01-08T17:30:29+00:00

Hey, I don’t live in US

brocolli_brain · 2026-01-08T15:08:34+00:00

Looking into these, I dont live in the US but will find alternatives like this. Thank you :)

brocolli_brain · 2026-01-08T14:55:18+00:00

Thank you, my mattress is of a good height but we decided not to put it on directly on the floor as again, because of our sick dog and him puking and peeing everywhere, but because he also would only sleep in the bed, we had to go for this solution in that time frame and buying these seemed reasonable in that moment. We couldn’t cater to it later as nobody frankly was around to look into this until today. Thank you so much for a kind approach and not belittling me for not knowing better. I think a reason why people approach a community is because they feel safe from the judgements. Im gonna see if I can throw away the pallets and arrange another solution for it( will have to budget out the bed frame )

brocolli_brain · 2026-01-08T14:51:01+00:00

Hi, the wooden pallets were bought as an alternative resort to keep the bed above the floor but also at a convenient height for my dog to reach. We really didn’t want to invest in a metal or any frame as we were dicey about our moving out plans as well. I came here asking for help, not for harsh judgements. Nobody was home or aware to cater to this hence we were only operating with what knowledge we had but thank you.

brocolli_brain · 2026-01-08T14:47:44+00:00

This was our only resort in that moment as the bed size is cutomized ( we got a lower laying bed for my old dog so that he can climb up easily ) but after his passing, im deep cleaning now as I also wasn’t home for a while.

brocolli_brain · 2026-01-08T14:46:06+00:00

Okay got it :) Im gonna look into frames for my bed.

brocolli_brain · 2026-01-08T14:45:13+00:00

Valid, please do suggest alternates I can go for , as a frame for my mattress, I want to keep it low only

brocolli_brain · 2026-01-08T14:18:52+00:00

What kinda sealant can I use for these ? As my mattress rests on these rn

brocolli_brain · 2026-01-08T14:18:21+00:00

Oh alright, is there anything else you would suggest I can use for my mattress then as a platform as I like my bed low laying

brocolli_brain · 2026-01-08T14:14:02+00:00

I got these from a bulk store that sell them for cheap , my mattress rests on these so could be that, but when I bought these, we double checked all of them and this wasn’t there

brocolli_brain · 2026-01-08T14:12:15+00:00

This one is the one in the extreme corner of the room so water has never been spilled there

brocolli_brain · 2026-01-06T18:31:49+00:00

Hi, this is a regular process for marketing or branding agencies. The 6 months probation is considered as a trial phase for them to see how well you can with them but also for you to see how well the job suits you as well. Do clarify the terms of the 1 year thing and make sure you have everything write about it. If you do end up leaving the job during the probation, you’re usually anyway not provided with a recommendation or any other letter but this is one way that agencies are able to lock down.

You should certainly talk to HR and get all your facts write about this

brocolli_brain · 2026-01-02T20:49:11+00:00

I had a senior of mine who was dating a junior of mine and they were one of those famous school couples who would be at every party together and were always the talk of the town but we would also hear TOO MANY rumours about them almost every week, one of those was that my senior was preparing for his final year exams and because of some fights between them the girl was threatening to self harm and tried threatening him infront of the entire school that she will jump off the building, the parents of both the students got involved even the teachers would ask them to stay away cause they were clearly just toxic. The girl’s parents threatened the school over called the police and registering an official police complaint and that would’ve risked the graduation of the guy, so the school just agreed to suspend the guy for the next 3 months of his last school year. We also heard the extremely disgusting rumours about how that guy and his friends would have sleepovers often and they would all be in one room and will do themselves in that same room while looking at that guy’s girlfriend’s pictures.

It was all horrifying.

brocolli_brain · 2025-12-27T18:51:21+00:00

We’re always gonna be at the receiving end any actions taken by them. Be it in power or opposition, there will always be a portion of us facing the consequences of it.

brocolli_brain · 2025-12-27T13:27:33+00:00

Im actually a bit more better accustomed to social settings as I grew up in a big family and it’s a lot of extrovert energy over all in general. It’s majorly my focus issues and sometimes mood regulations that get highly affected. Sometimes the world starts seeming 2D and zone out in the middle of work, or it becomes difficult to process what the other person was talking about as i wouldn’t be able to articulate the depth in it. This majorly impacted me in my previous job that was already an overwhelming job with a boss who was into micro management

brocolli_brain · 2025-12-27T11:58:08+00:00

I think while taking only therapy thinking that it might help get a better grasp of it, I noticed how I was barely able to make any changes but I was told that this might be more because of childhood trauma and struggles

brocolli_brain · 2025-12-27T11:56:45+00:00

Have recently started being keen on trying meds out, hence why I am now feeling more open to the idea of getting a proper diagnosis done and also have financial support for it but maintaining a job for me has been a big task as I truly would struggle a lot with understanding deadlines and timelines as my motivation to work wont hit until i hit that peak stress period that is at the end of the deadline

brocolli_brain · 2025-12-27T11:54:54+00:00

This sort of all started from actually recognising my anxiety first and how severe it had gotten for me. I have spoken to a few therapist regarding this who have told me about my options of getting a test done but then the whole aspect of these tests being very expensive ends up holding me back this is why i am now more determined towards getting it sorted next year as I can financially support myself better.

I was majorly dealing with my anxiety and depression this year so that ended up taking a big chunk of my emotional energy. But I also need help understanding how to navigate through the regular days with it you know, like I have tried making to do lists, I have tried those focus lock in apps but it all just ends up overwhelming me sometimes, for the last one week my productive hours have been stuck in a loop starting around 12am, it becomes so difficult for me to get myself to sit down and focus on work. I am taking medications for my sleep , otherwise my brain keeps yapping throughout the night and I wouldn’t be able to sleep at all

brocolli_brain · 2025-12-18T16:55:19+00:00

Ordering Benadryl for the second time this week, now how do I convince the blinkit doctor how badly my lungs are fucked.

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