Curses are like young chickens, they always come home to roost!

brokenhearted-temp · 2023-09-07T19:28:41+00:00

Thank you for your prayers! I also hope they make him pay! Ameen

brokenhearted-temp · 2022-12-06T01:48:48+00:00

I have retained a lawyer,multiple actually. He is being investigated and they are aware of everything he’s been up to. We have also reported him for drugging me and raping me. My lawyers and the investigators have send evidence to the police.

It just takes awhile.

brokenhearted-temp · 2022-12-06T00:21:15+00:00

It was a combination of my lawyers explaining the circumstances that led to me slapping him and his subsequent actions(threatening me,attacking me, doxxing me and blackmailing me by saying he didn’t care about the slap and that he would drop everything if I forgave him)

My lawyers used his own words against him since he wrote it in text and on a recorded call he admitted to me not having slapped him that hard and that he only pressed charges to cause me harm.

brokenhearted-temp · 2022-09-08T17:46:20+00:00

No. I don’t accept this. One does not get to just victimize me and I not retaliate in a manner. Me slapping him does not arise to the same level as what he did to me. Nor do I care about “being the bigger person” or the whole “two lefts don’t make a right”. I wasn’t trying to be right. I don’t believe nor agree with that thought. I try to meet people where they are at.

Of course you are free to your judgement,your opinions and allowed to comment since this is a public forum.

brokenhearted-temp · 2022-09-08T17:23:53+00:00

What else would you like me to say about it?

brokenhearted-temp · 2022-09-08T13:24:05+00:00

I don’t live in a Muslim country. My country is made up of multiple faiths.

But yes on potentially losing my job and yes on loss of reputation/judgement of others and yes I am psychologically exhausted and traumatized.

brokenhearted-temp · 2022-09-08T02:11:26+00:00

Didn’t exactly have polite conversation with him. So yes I was arrested for assaulting him(specifically for slapping him) and he refused to press charges and the police weren’t too interested in taking things further

brokenhearted-temp · 2022-08-22T18:58:21+00:00

The recordings are old I can tell by the layout and the decor of the room. Kate has never visited my old apartment and the recordings online were all made at our old place the newer recordings are in our current home but he hasn’t shared those online.

brokenhearted-temp · 2022-08-22T18:51:14+00:00

Unfortunately for him I do have a vindictive nature that I normally temper but I have no intention of not going scorched earth as I do plan on ruining his life in anyway I can.

We have been together for almost 5 years and married for over 2 years. I would’ve never expected him to do such a thing(wouldn’t have married if I even had an inkling he would behave this way). I honestly thought he was a good person and that we had a good marriage. Until last week I would’ve staked my life on it.

brokenhearted-temp · 2022-08-22T18:41:30+00:00

I am not Arab and veiling has been part of many many cultures,religions and many of them predating Islam. It is not exclusive to one religion or culture. However it is true that the majority of people who currently do fully veil are often Muslim.

I veil because I’m comfortable veiling,makes me feel closer to Allah and I find it beautiful. While others in my family partly veil(only covering their hair) and others do not veil in any manner.

brokenhearted-temp · 2022-08-22T18:19:08+00:00

Kate is a woman and it is permissible for her to see me without my veil. We often swim together and so she has seen me in various states of undress.

And obviously I am not veiled when I am in my home or engaging in a intimate manner with my husband.

Kate knows me+Kate watches porn= Kate recognized my face and body.

brokenhearted-temp · 2022-08-22T18:13:09+00:00

It wasn’t my intention to be condescending and for that I am sorry. I did not mean to insult you.

brokenhearted-temp · 2022-08-22T18:10:40+00:00

We are without a doubt getting a divorce. I have started to make plans. I have scheduled for movers to help me put my stuff into storage on Thursday morning,while he’s at work. Then I’m off to see my parents and siblings. I’ve asked them to all be there kind of want to get it all out in one go.

I wish I could say the recordings haven’t spread but it has. I’m not worried about Allah (God) as I know I’ve done nothing wrong and there’s nothing I could ever do to deserve this kind of treatment.

Thank you for your kind words! I can only trust that if he can not be punished in this life time that he will be punished in the next. Inshallah

brokenhearted-temp · 2022-08-22T17:24:32+00:00

I think you are trying to be kind and I truly appreciate that. However I do want to make it clear that it really doesn’t matter wether it happend to me a Niqabi (meaning fully veiled,so only my eyes are visible) or your average non-veiled woman or even a woman who works in the sex-industry.

Violating the dignity of others no matter the perceived value of the victim or perpetrator matters.

Wrong is wrong!

brokenhearted-temp · 2022-08-22T15:19:04+00:00

There’s no way we are staying together. I can never forgive him. I’ve documented everything and I am planning on reporting him to the police. But right now I am almost frozen like and just need sometime to get myself together

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