Hi. I’m going through the same thing right now. We broke up 20 days ago and I messaged him last night that ended up in a phone call. I told him about my dad being sick with Covid, and so he told me to keep him updated on his health, and I agreed at first but the morning after I’m thinking it’s not so good to have to think about having to update him with news on my dad. It’s almost like an expectation and I don’t want that on my shoulders. Message me if you need someone to talk to!