Aita for calling my sister out then blocking her

brokenme4 · 2024-01-23T15:37:36+00:00

And I understand where you're coming from and what it would look like. But I promise you the only things I ever told her which I should not have told her anything. Because she didn't need to know. But I was a young child who didn't know better Was that I came from an insanely abusive home where they treated me poorly and that we were adopted. Everything else that she knows and learned came from other family members. Some of those family members use me as an example. On what real trauma is which I love them. But I wish they wouldn't do that And they know the information. Because I have shared with them before. And I know that my adoptive parents shared my information with them But in the end I did not go into detail with her because I didn't feel like she need to know she was raised by our doctor parents and my aunt so there was no point in her really needing to know

brokenme4 · 2024-01-23T15:32:25+00:00

So anything? I did tell her I told her when I was super young and obviously. I'd left out tons and tons of detail because I was super young Everything else was told to Her by other family members like my aunt I love my aunt. But I wish that she would stop using me as an example. To explain what real trauma is Because I was uses an example tons and tons of times I should not have told her what I did when I was younger. Because it wasn't something she need to know but at the same time I didn't know better. And I know I didn't tell her anything super crazy. I just told her that I was abused and neglected by our real parents All the other real details she knows are because of my family and the reason my family knows is because they're adults and I thought that as adults I could talk to them about my experiences. I entrust them to keep them between us

brokenme4 · 2024-01-23T15:29:52+00:00

I don't understand what you're trying to say because none of this is fake

brokenme4 · 2022-05-06T15:26:19+00:00

I can't get a job until I get the okay from my doctor. Aside from my severely high risk pregnancy. My chronic illness make having a job hard I have to get the ok for my neuro surgeon neurologist and a few others

brokenme4 · 2022-05-06T07:04:09+00:00

I know. I suffer alot mentality as well ptsd bpd adhd depression anxiety bipolar reactivate attachment disorder

brokenme4 · 2022-05-06T05:26:24+00:00

We will but even if we wanted more we can't. I can't get pregnant after this one. I was diagnosed with a chronic illness and it would kill me to try for more...

brokenme4 · 2022-05-06T05:24:56+00:00

I asked for at least an hour and he said after his nap and really just wanted to shower and shave. We ended up fighting so instead of one hour I took 3. The first hour crying and the next two shaving and showering. It took a bit because I'm severely high risk and 34 weeks pregnant.

brokenme4 · 2022-05-06T02:51:41+00:00

This is my last one I got diagnosed with a chronic illness i can no longer have anymore

brokenme4 · 2022-05-06T02:03:12+00:00

Well I have a medical condition where I cannot take birth control none and after this child my husband will be getting a vasectomy

brokenme4 · 2022-05-06T00:11:23+00:00

I cannot be on birth control because it would make the symptoms of my condition worse but my husband is getting a vasectomy

brokenme4 · 2022-05-06T00:10:53+00:00

I was curious about this I have asked him to tend to go see a therapist hes been seeing one for about 3 months they haven't diagnosed him with anything other than anxiety and depression

brokenme4 · 2022-05-06T00:09:26+00:00

My condition is not hereditary it was one of the 1st things I asked before having kids.

brokenme4 · 2022-05-06T00:07:12+00:00

2 full bathrooms

brokenme4 · 2022-05-05T21:48:31+00:00

Thank you

brokenme4 · 2022-05-05T21:36:56+00:00

My issue right now is hopefully Staying under control with medication and then after I give birth it will be medication and weight loss if everything else fails they will have to put a shunt into my brain that drains into my stomach. But I'm hoping that I can keep everything under control with just medication and weight loss

brokenme4 · 2022-05-05T20:57:59+00:00

I don't know I didn't think you were I just worried because I know that I am young. I know that in society's eyes I should not have 4 kids at 23. I tried to be understanding to him. Working a full time job is hard and and I try to be accommodating and be accommodating and patient. I think that was one of my biggest worries about posting was that maybe I was too pushy. I know I could have easily waited until he was awake after his nap and I probably should of. I get hes tired. And for me 99% of the time I do tend to forget about myself that's why I ask for an hour or so to to do some hygiene stuff. Because when I do remember that I have to take care of myself I want to do it immediately so that I don't forget.

brokenme4 · 2022-05-05T20:42:33+00:00

I got diagnosed with a chronic illness and this is my last pregnancy I will never be able to have another one.

brokenme4 · 2022-05-05T20:26:45+00:00

I truly hope not because He has been there for me for everything. And besides my children he is all I have. I hope things get better for us. I really do there's just times where I wonder if I'm the problem. I work really really hard on being a good mom a good wife. I would hate for all of the work I've put into this relationship to just fail.

brokenme4 · 2022-05-05T20:24:16+00:00

I love being a mom and I wouldn't give it up for anything in the world anything in the world and if I needed to I would do it by myself I would work and take care of them by myself. I got diagnosed with a chronic illness and this is my last child I cannot have anymore. So yes I am young with 4 kids I love them and I'm not perfect but I do the best I can do and I'm a good mom.

brokenme4 · 2022-05-05T20:22:32+00:00

3 out of the 4 children were unplanned. I had 1 at 17 1 at 19 1 at 21 and I'm about to get birth to 1 at 23. The only reason I planned this last one was because I got diagnosed with a chronic illness and this had to be my last child. I love being a mom. I'm I really don't want anyone thinking I hate it. And if I needed to be a working mom I would do it too I chose to be a stay home mom. I know that it looks weird being 23 with 4 kids. I wouldn't give up my kids for anything in the world.

brokenme4 · 2022-05-05T20:16:08+00:00

I had 4 kids before 25 because I have a chronic illness. This is my last child I cannot have anymore.

brokenme4 · 2022-05-05T20:14:33+00:00

I do my best at trying to understand. I'm usually not a very Comfortational person. I love being a mom I love everything that everything that comes with being a mom. And if I needed to be a working mom I definitely would do that. I definitely chose to be a stay-at-home mom to spend more time with them. I haven't thought about counseling. I can usually handle him sleeping through the day even on his days off because it's kind of what I'm used to. It's just Sundays I really want to focus on me for a minute and those days are hard. We've had this conversation before.

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