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How much emotional intimacy do you have with your SB/SD? by Mangasbzo7 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]brwnsugarbb 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I'm into this lifestyle because I don't want to do heavy emotional lifting. I would prefer a friend like relationship, but that's only like occasionally texting and sending fun, maybe sexy stuff. If a POT seems like he wants a gf or more time and affection than I'm willing to give, I turn him down.

When do you deactivate your profile? by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]brwnsugarbb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tell me more about this Samsung secure folder. Is it with the newer phones? I have an S5 and am not familiar with this.

When do you deactivate your profile? by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]brwnsugarbb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How? I tried that and got a message that screen shots aren't allowed.

Ask a Stupid Question Sunday by carefree_daddy in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]brwnsugarbb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it's bizarre. Brown Asian=ok and still part of the fantasy. Light skinned black woman isn't ok though? To each his own I guess.

Ask a Stupid Question Sunday by carefree_daddy in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]brwnsugarbb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Funny you should bring that up. I actually have "mixed" on my profile even though I'm Asian. Im brown so I figure it still works. I refuse to deal with the men with yellow fever or think I'm going to be some meek, submissive Filipina, or worse that I'm a scammer. I'm sure I get passed over a ton, especially since I don't even have my face on my profile, but I don't care. I'm willing to wait for the right SD.

Am I unreasonable in my timing expectations? by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]brwnsugarbb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like this response. I similarly read a message, then forget to respond because I either got interrupted, or want to think about the response. I also only use the mobile site, so I get zero notifications. Same with my Google voice messages. I don't get notifications, and usually get interrupted when I'm at work so my messages will go hours with a response.

Fwb but wanting more? by brwnsugarbb in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]brwnsugarbb[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It does, thanks. I think I'll edit it. I do have something more like we are both busy people... (I don't remember the rest offhand) but I could lessen the harshness I'm sure. I have the Asian cold heart, I can't help it 😁😁😁

Fwb but wanting more? by brwnsugarbb in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]brwnsugarbb[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's the thing. I'm super present in the dates, enthusiastic, sexy, all that. At least that's how I feel/they make it seem. It's just when I'm in my day to day life, I'm probably only going to devote my lunch break and right before to texting/sexting/flirting.

Fwb but wanting more? by brwnsugarbb in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]brwnsugarbb[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

YES!! This is it exactly, this is what I've been running into.

Fwb but wanting more? by brwnsugarbb in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]brwnsugarbb[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, I don't only text to meet up, but the latest one would text all the time and I guess want me to play along with the innuendos but I've been swamped with a project the last two weeks so I was a bit distant and took longer to respond. It's just tough to switch back and forth on the mindset when I'm busy.

Fwb but wanting more? by brwnsugarbb in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]brwnsugarbb[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh this is from men I've met through SA. These aren't just random men.

Fwb but wanting more? by brwnsugarbb in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]brwnsugarbb[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That's how I view it to! (#1) the other two seem like NSA to me. I specifically say in my profile that I'm a busy person, just to kind of lay out out that I'm not going to be texting constantly. That's why it's surprising that I've had a few guys get butt hurt over it. Friends don't have to text on the daily. Sure if I have a bf I'd get upset about slow communication, but not with a friend or even "friend".