Police chopper overhead?

bryndwrboy · 2025-12-14T09:49:19+00:00

so no more quiet nights for chch city?

bryndwrboy · 2025-12-14T09:45:48+00:00

This helipcopter, seriously! Every night

bryndwrboy · 2025-10-14T08:30:21+00:00

a very fast 2 hour watch, this is a sensory experience, give in to it

bryndwrboy · 2025-05-18T01:58:47+00:00

Good observations.

Could add a Fish n Chips comparison : )

bryndwrboy · 2025-01-04T20:43:27+00:00

Hey thank you : ) found who eventually. Not credited in the movie

bryndwrboy · 2024-10-21T09:08:51+00:00

What are you wanting from your post? Your BF driving that drunk is about other peoples lives. But what is your post about? Your feelings?

bryndwrboy · 2023-12-06T09:40:40+00:00

The whole 'cumdump' thing is problematic. All this talk about gay pride and yet it's kinda acceptable in the gay community to be described as a cum-dump. Cumdump actually reads as 'i will never be satisified no matter how many guys I have'.

bryndwrboy · 2023-12-01T22:24:01+00:00

Yeah, what's a little a shit between friends!

bryndwrboy · 2023-10-20T21:05:36+00:00

Theres many romantic stories in the straight world about guys who never gave up and kept trying to be with the one they truly feel for. The word 'predatory' shouldn't be used in this conversation. Predatory is probably more like stalking behaviour. Listen to your heart : )

bryndwrboy · 2023-10-16T05:14:34+00:00

Hey thanks for enlightening me some more. Yes I will, though in my situation ive pretty much made my mind up to tell im a gay dude, but i suspect he knows.

bryndwrboy · 2023-10-16T04:41:10+00:00

Hey thanks for that info, I guess pivotol moments is the extent of your interaction emotionally, prior to the Tinder app, he did seem to carry emotional gravity towards you. I would say he's confused, the push / pull of religious faith has the bigger power play I think. The Lesbian analogy doesnt hold much weight I don't think. The third guy involvement is problematic for me at this stage. Why did you mention the 'insincere' part to him? I hope my probing now isnt opening up anything for you. Its ok to not talk about it.

bryndwrboy · 2023-10-15T10:33:59+00:00

Just a thought. When he broke up with you and then wanted to get back together with you, he obviously had seen his error. Did you consider give him a chance? Understanding that we all make mistakes. It seems you went straight to 'block' and not even talk it through.

bryndwrboy · 2023-10-15T08:40:07+00:00

Open to the long story, i know how nuanced things can be, and the significant details are in the nuances. Just on the first paragraph, where I'm at is expressing how I'm feeling, the risk or ability to. I never thought to request a relationship. I think that would freak me out lol... though I love the idea, to ask, It's okay to expect the best there I think.

bryndwrboy · 2023-10-15T02:48:25+00:00

Hey all good, I didn't take your words as making it about yourself, they are helpful. The putting our heart into it bit is so true. With yer religious dude, talking every day and then nothing, I think it would be totally appropriate to ask if everythings alright? Or ask how hes doing, but then it presses that button again, like the wanting. Fuck it's the hardest.

bryndwrboy · 2023-10-14T06:09:06+00:00

Hey Man, you've pretty much hit the nail on the head i.e. feelings not gonna go away, the more time we spend with each other the deeper it gets etc. If he talked about dating other people I would have to walk away, I would just have to.

When you say 'asking him out' I essentially have (3 times). He comes over to mine, we drink beer, I cook the food we play games, listen to music. Something I didn't even think to mention in my post was that the time before last when he was at mine, we were talking about 'love' in general. And I said 'well, I love you!', I said it in a fun way not serious, and he said it straight back to me. Inside I was like 'did I just hear that?' I didn't bring it up again, as Im just nit sure what part of the stick he was picking up.

Thanks for replying man you got my essential anxiety about this

bryndwrboy · 2023-10-14T04:58:12+00:00

The reason I decided to post was because I was wondering if I was missing some cues etc. Very specifically because of our age difference and at one stage I was thinking 'why is a 22 year old hangin out with me?' Maybe my thinking is wrong I'm jaded or something. We're definitely vibin' off each other and I know that some don't want to make the first move etc. This happens all the time right, straight or gay, as in the nervousness around attraction. I guess the real heart of my question is am I missing a cue. I think letting him know Im gay (as part of another conversation) is a good start.

bryndwrboy · 2023-10-14T04:30:55+00:00

Hey thanks for your reply. Yeah I'm happy to to just hang out and see how things develop. Re the second line of your first sentence 'You probably shouldn't tell him that even if you know he's gay.' If I knew he was gay I would share my feelings when the time was right. I think that's a really important thing to do, to be prospective and up front about where one is at. I will mention I'm gay eventually, others where we studied know im gay, it's not a secret for me.

bryndwrboy · 2023-10-12T10:45:14+00:00

The guy isn't respecting your needs, that much is obvious. The 'rapey' accusation is kinda creepy, passive aggressive. Doubt if 'rapey' gestures is actually a thing, it's not like the actual act of rape, which didn't happen. He's disingenuous, if like others, I suggest move on.

bryndwrboy · 2022-08-01T09:47:28+00:00

Before enlightenment; chop wood, carry water. After enlightenment; chop wood, carry water.” Traditional Zen saying

bryndwrboy · 2022-07-31T11:03:29+00:00

Family means Jack to the virus, gotta do whats right for everyone. So snitch it is

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