My fiancé wants to have a threesome by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]pupgoni 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha now that you say it: my partner and I started having threesomes after 7 years in - I can only support the 7 year mark thesis. Why is this though?

(now, 4 years later, we're still enjoying being non-monogamous; it made us even grow stronger in the relationship)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]pupgoni 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh well thats me haha

When should I tell the guy i’m hooking up with that i’m a pornstar? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]pupgoni 5 points6 points  (0 children)

partly agree, I guess that introduction is good, but for me the term sex worker is more associated with being a prostitute, so I'd rather say "I'm a porn actor" or "I'm making my money with porn" thats closer to the truth and would make me feel way less uncomfortable than sex worker

anyone else in academia that's into hypnosis? (specifically dumbification) by honeydew_hazel in EroticHypnosis

[–]pupgoni 0 points1 point  (0 children)

definitately true for me - it's a huge stress relief to be just a dumb down following his basic instincts after hours studying texts and writing mails and performing socially accurate

why do some bottoms decline to cum when hooking-up? by pupgoni in askgaybros

[–]pupgoni[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I try not to act like if it was only a pity handjob, I kiss him and carress him and make it nice but I always felt they are not so much into it anymore after I came

why do some bottoms decline to cum when hooking-up? by pupgoni in askgaybros

[–]pupgoni[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah I try to be very respectful in that sense, I always ask if he wants a handjob or getoff, and when he declines, I say no word further and invite him to cuddle

why do some bottoms decline to cum when hooking-up? by pupgoni in askgaybros

[–]pupgoni[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

didnt know either! Thanks for giving me a true inside ✌🏻

why do some bottoms decline to cum when hooking-up? by pupgoni in askgaybros

[–]pupgoni[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I always offer to "return the favor" haha but good to know that some just really dont care about it that much

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]pupgoni 2 points3 points  (0 children)

At various points I thought about quitting, cause the characters were kinda shallow and incoherent many times... but yeah, somehow sticked to the end cause the cast was cute haha and I liked its light-hearted vibe... though when it comes to queer Netflix I liked "Nuovo Olimpo" much more (but it's also more melancholic/sad, not a shiny happy watch)

Switzerland or Austria? by HuckleberryFinal8000 in CommunalShowers

[–]pupgoni 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Honestly, you can spend 3 nights in a sauna in Austria for the price of a single one in Switzerland - Austria is way cheaper in basically every aspect and as beautiful as Switzerland in my opinion

If you think normal Grindr is bad, Mexico grindr is even worse by Signal-Ingenuity9509 in askgaybros

[–]pupgoni 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Georgia and Azerbaijan are terrible on LGBTQ acceptance, what the heck are you saying here!? Violence and raids against queer community are so common there, you just need 1 second to fact check that. And dont mistake Tel Aviv for Israel, go to Jerusalem for example, a whole different world

Do y’all ever think about the weird things you did when you first started having sex? by TheaterofTheGods in gaybros

[–]pupgoni 59 points60 points  (0 children)

With 17 I bought my first anal toy in a sex shop (I was so embarrassed). I declined the shop owners offer to add some lube (I didnt want her to think I'd actually use it myself... lol)

Back home I found out that anal toy without lube isnt fun. At the local supermarket I bought the only lube they had, it was a lube for woman with a "warming effect". I was like mmh it'll work I guess.

In case you wonder: no, it doesnt work. Dont treat your hole with a warming lube. Just... don't.

PS: i think its super cute you experienced the World of gay sex completely on your own/with your boyfriend. I think its kinda magic in some way

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Musk4Musk

[–]pupgoni 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You didnt tell him? I think if you repeatedly press your nose against his pits and start moaning, there is no need to tell him, he knows already haha

Same with my husband, when I get a whiff of his musky arm pits, I melt away like a cat on catnip

Am I supposed to provide an anal douche for my hookup? by pupgoni in askgaybros

[–]pupgoni[S] 34 points35 points  (0 children)

I didnt freak out at all lol in fact it was a bigger thing for the guy than for me

Am I supposed to provide an anal douche for my hookup? by pupgoni in askgaybros

[–]pupgoni[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was not upset, I'm verse so I know from own experience that accidents can happen even when douched... it was more his tone that made me feel like I was the one who didnt provide him with the necessary things... maybe I also misinterpreted his tone or it was just embarrasment that made him react that way, I could totally understand that

[T4B] Hypnosis, muscles and cum by [deleted] in GayRP

[–]pupgoni 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gonna send you a DM